Category Archives: CG-STAT

Sex Should Be An Okay Thing

A4P Guest: I have a quick question. So, my girlfriend is an Ethiopian girl. I love her very much and she loves me too. So, my question is this: What’s wrong with having sex before marriage? I don’t think we need to sanctify our flesh here on earth since the Bible says, “flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God” (1 Corinthians 15:50) and “The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing,” (John 6:63). So, as long as my girlfriend and I keep our soul and spirit holy, sex should be an okay thing since it is done on the flesh. So, can you give me few more verses to go over with my girlfriend since she is struggling to accept this truth?

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“But She is a Virgin”

From all the hundreds of commandments given to the people of God, the Israelites, this one command gets my attention:
 
“Do not plow with an ox and a donkey yoked together.” (Deuteronomy 22:10)
 
Okay, I clearly understand other commandments such as, “Don’t kill” and “Don’t do adultery.”
 
“Don’t yoke an ox and a donkey?” Huh?
 
This got me a bit confused.

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Desperate To Get Married?

Are you desperate to get married? Does the thought of getting married consume you? Do you find yourself browsing through social media to see if someone is interested in you?
 
Well, most nutritionists advise us not to go to grocery shopping while hungry. Do you know why? Well, if we are hungry, we buy anything regardless of the fat content and the calorie count of the food and we end up destroying our health and excellent body figure.

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Our Natural Beauty

 A4P Guest: “I’m a 21 year old girl, new for this dating business. I met this amazing guy, 26 years old, in my church. We were friends for almost six months. I believe I’m deeply in love with him but he doesn’t know that. I covered that part of the story real well. And when he asked me out, I was about to pass out. I’m not kidding. He is my dream man. Now, we are going to meet for the first time, next Saturday for lunch. This lunch will mark our first official date but I’m very nervous. I don’t want to mess things up; I just don’t want to lose him. What do you advise me to do?”

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