Category Archives: Singles

Grooming Each Other For Sex

A4P Guest: I am a 26 year old woman. I’ve been seeing this man I met in my church. He is 29 years old. We both are in our church choir and worship team. We both have never been in a relationship before. We love each other and we plan to get married at the end of this year, if God wills. So, my question is, is it okay for us to kiss?

A4P: If you specify the kind of kiss you’re talking about, I may be able to tell you. Continue reading Grooming Each Other For Sex

Marry Him!

A4P Guest: Missy, if you were a single woman today, what would be the three main characteristics you would be looking for in a man?

A4P: I love this question! Do you know why?

Well, I think I already told you this but one of the things I was looking for in a man when I was single, young and “st***d” was six-pack abs. It is very embarrassing to admit that now, but it was true.

Continue reading Marry Him!

“He Avoids the Topic of Marriage”

A4P Guest: I’m a 36 year-old woman and I’ve been dating a man (38 years old) for a couple years now. We both are born again Christians. This year, I was expecting him to propose to me but he doesn’t even talk about marriage at all. I told him in several occasions how much I desire to get married. But he usually changes the subject and avoids it totally. What do you advise me to do?

A4P: I have few questions for you before I jump into answering your questions. So, what do you mean when you say you are dating a man? How do you define dating? How does dating look like in your relationship? Continue reading “He Avoids the Topic of Marriage”

“You Don’t Have Sex Experience”

A4P Guest: I am 29 years old, soon to be 30. I came to the US 4.5 years ago.  I was living in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. I was a member of one of the Emanuel branch churches. I was in the church prayer team. When I was 24, I was in love with someone but in one of our prayer meetings, one of the guys who pray in the group prophesied on me and said, “God said this to me to tell you that you shouldn’t continue with the guy you are seeing now. If you marry him, you will face lots of sufferings and heartaches.” So, I called the guy the next day and told him never to call me. Then one of my church members relative came from America for vacation and I met him in church. Then he asked me for marriage. I didn’t like him at all and I was not attracted to his look either. Continue reading “You Don’t Have Sex Experience”

Her Flawless Total Naked Body

“What is so special about this girl that I keep on being drawn to her?” was the question he asked himself after he tried to call her for the third time in one day.

“Is she ignoring my call? Is she not interested to talk to me?” He didn’t like the fact that he was on the other side of the equation, the one who was being ignored.

He said to himself, “Whatever! She’s a girl; she will call me back. Let me ignore her.” But the truth of the matter was he noticed something in her that he hasn’t seen in any other girl. And he knew that she wouldn’t call him if he didn’t keep trying. Continue reading Her Flawless Total Naked Body

No One Who Touches Her

He was not going to church as often as he used to. He had good fellowship with some Christian friends but he kind of caught up with busy life and felt estranged from them and the things of God.

Then little by little, his prayer-time turned from one hour to five minutes. He knows that he is a good looking guy who attracts any woman in his vicinity. At times he blamed his look for finding himself in bed with a number of women he didn’t even know their full names. He swore to God and himself never to have sex with a woman before marriage but he didn’t seem to be able to stick it out. Continue reading No One Who Touches Her