Category Archives: CG-STAT

Our Natural Beauty

 A4P Guest: “I’m a 21 year old girl, new for this dating business. I met this amazing guy, 26 years old, in my church. We were friends for almost six months. I believe I’m deeply in love with him but he doesn’t know that. I covered that part of the story real well. And when he asked me out, I was about to pass out. I’m not kidding. He is my dream man. Now, we are going to meet for the first time, next Saturday for lunch. This lunch will mark our first official date but I’m very nervous. I don’t want to mess things up; I just don’t want to lose him. What do you advise me to do?”

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You Rather Be Single For Life

It is wonderful to see couples tying the knot to be one, never to be two.

As a married person and a teacher in the area of sexual purity, I can’t tell you how I rejoice whenever I see a wedding.

Yes, the Bible says that marriage protects us from being soaked in sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 7). What a joy then to see someone escaping such a “ruthless tyrant” as sexual immorality! Continue reading You Rather Be Single For Life

“Is Oral Sex Allowed?”

A4P Guest: Is oral sex allowed?

A4P: What do you mean?

A4P Guest: I thought my question was clear.

A4P: Well, your question is not clear for me. It sounds like there is a list of allowed and not allowed things in the Bible. As far as I understood the Bible, there is no list for us to follow after; we only have two commandments to live by: to love God and to love our neighbors as ourselves (Matthew 22:34-40). So, if you give me some background story as to where this question came from, I may be able to address your question candidly, in light of these two commandments.

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