A4P Guest: Well, I am not sure where to begin. I am married and have a two year old girl. This is my second marriage. I am 35 years old. Yes, I am a born-again Christian. I got married with my second husband three years ago. And I am constantly thinking about my ex. I know this sounds crazy but I can’t stop thinking about him. I am learning about marriage a lot now and I can see clearly how my previous marriage could have been saved had I have known what I know today. Missy, my husband is a nice man but I am not in love with him. I am in love with my ex-husband. I don’t know what to do about that. My ex is married and there is no way for me to get back to him, I know that very well. And I don’t want to hurt my current husband and I don’t want my ex to divorce his wife either. But I have this constant wish that doesn’t leave my mind. I am crying when I type this but let me tell you my deepest wish: I want my ex-husband to call me and tell me that he still loves me. Missy, we used to love each other. I met him when I was 19, I was madly in love with him, so was he, and – – – I think I need to stop. I think I am depressed. I don’t know what to do or where to go. Can you help me?
Monthly Archives: April 2018
“Everyone Is A Theologian”
Well, listening to books via Audible app has been my new norm these days. Having quite a hectic life, Audible seems to help me read as many books as I want even when I cook or do laundry.
Has Greater Purpose
There is nothing demoralizing and discouraging for a Christian as the desire to do life perfectly but not be able to achieve it.
We always find ourselves falling short of being perfect. Continue reading Has Greater Purpose
Is Sex Evil?
A4P Guest: Do you think sex is evil?
A4P: Do I think sex is evil? Oh, no, I don’t think sex is evil.
A4P Guest: But you always speak how evil sex is.
A4P: I do?
A4P Guest: Yes. You always say that there is death in it.
Let No One!
Divorce solves nothing.
Divorce only causes pains and hurts and mars life with lifetime guilt and regret.
Dating Unbelieving Person
From all the things God commanded His people, the Israelites, this one command got my attention last week:
“Do not plow with an ox and a donkey yoked together.” (Deuteronomy 22:10)
Okay, I clearly understand those commands such as, “Don’t kill” and “Don’t do adultery”; but “don’t yoke an ox and a donkey” command kind of got me a bit confused. Continue reading Dating Unbelieving Person
Huh? Samson, The Adulterer?
When we read Hebrews chapter eleven, we find a list of names, names of a prostitute, a murderer, an adulterer, a deceiver and so on.
Hidden Beauty/Strength of a Woman
Hidden beauty/strength of a woman is explained by St. Peter like this:
Very Excited!
Yes, I am traveling to Indianapolis. This is my second trip to this particular church. So, I’m going to continue my teaching from where I left off. This is cool! No introduction, no nothing! I love it!
Totally Out of Sync
I can’t overemphasize this advice especially to those of you who are young and vibrant:
Have a habit of reading spiritual books written by spiritual, educated and sensible authors.
Make a habit of sitting with a good book, not with “I will make you feel good” kind of book but “I will challenge you and make your brain hurt so you know God and His word well” kind of book.