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Family, Marriage, Sexual Purity, Truth

You Have A Good Marriage If – – –

Many marriage experts agree that no one can have a perfect marriage.

Duh! We all are imperfect people and when two of us come together, we can’t create a perfect life.

Okay, that is like one of those “no brainer” facts. But do you know that many marriage experts (means, people who spend most of their days studying about marriage) agree that there are only two kinds of marriages: Good or bad? Yeah, it is very true.

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Sexual Purity

Target To Be

Being a virgin is not the ultimate spiritual virtue of a Christian.
 
And being a virgin doesn’t say anything about the person when it comes to sexual purity because sexual purity has nothing to do with being a virgin but everything to do with THE CONDITION OF ONE’S HEART (Matthew 5:28-19). One can be physically a virgin but mentally and spiritually an immoral person. So, as a Christian, a follower of Jesus Christ, target to be mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually virgin! ///
Sexual Purity

“My boyfriend is from here, America”

A4P Guest: I’m 28 years old and my soon-to-be husband is 32. My boyfriend is from here, America and I’m from Ethiopia. My parents want us to make our wedding in an Ethiopian church but I want to do it in the American church I always go to. I felt like I’m disobeying my parents by deciding to do that. Do you think I’m disobeying my parents because I chose a church I want to do my wedding at?

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Sexual Purity, Truth

How You can Make a Man Happy When – – –

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Sometimes the message has to come directly from the heart and a wise person who heard the message will put the message to heart and strive to live by it.
 
(One of A4P’s fans shared this with us in our inbox. Thank you!)
 
“The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord,” (Psalm 37:23)
 
“He who finds a wife finds a good thing,” (Proverbs 18:22)

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CG-STAT, Marriage, Sexual Purity, Singles, Truth

My Wish to Marry A Christian Man

A4P Guest: “I am a 40 year old woman. I grew up in a well-educated family, have a BA, on the looks department, I am okay, I have a pretty face, bit short, great confidence, beautiful heart,( as told by people). I am not a born-again Christian, but I am faithful, love to read the Bible, and Christian articles, very curious for knowledge, I love to read a variety of books, from children’s stories to politics. I love to dance, I don’t drink. I have had a range of boyfriends, mostly kind and good guys never had a full sexual relationship with anyone, due to my views, that sexual relationships are best only in marriage, as I believe God’s wish is. Right now, I don’t have any boyfriend, but these days I am facing a big problem, my family is pressuring me either to get married or have a baby out of wedlock (I am the eldest child, out of four siblings). I do understand their concern, and wish/dream to become grandparents, uncles, aunties, but it is also against my wish and belief to have a child out of wedlock. The option of being married is out of the picture right now. So what do I do? I know my parents are not getting any younger, nor am I for that matter. My wish to marry a humble Christian man, be a faithful wife, build a Christian family is becoming almost a mirage. I have prayed hard for the right partner, but my Boaz is nowhere to be found. I am stuck between fulfilling my and my family’s wishes the wrong way, or spend the rest of my life, alone, childless, and killing everyone’s dream and wishes, what do I do? You can share it on your Facebook page, some women might have the same problem so we can learn from each other, but keep my identity a secret.”
 
A4P: I believe you are at a tough place in life. Sure you are a bit older. I get it, you are 40 but I’m not sure why you said “The option of being married is out of the picture right now.”

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