“I read your article titled, “Lust on a Driver Seat”. Well, I’m a victim of lust.
I contributed to the problem big time. I’m that wife who cries herself to sleep because my husband of three years doesn’t want anything to do with me. We have a one year old son and I live as if I was a single mom. Looking back, I think, I sexually seduced my husband to marry me. Please don’t judge me. I was very scared of getting old. I know my body figure is the one which put me in trouble. I also used to dress up “immodestly”. I did some wrong choices. Continue reading “I’m the Victim of Lust”
When a man wants to marry a girl because he lusts after her body, he can present himself to her as the most romantic man on this planet earth.
And for a girl, there is nothing as attractive as a romantic man. She thinks that he is madly in love with her. But the truth of the matter is he is not really in love with her. Is he ready for a long term commitment such as marriage? Oh, no, he is not. But does he care if he even goes through the wedding process to have her body for a night? No, he doesn’t care.
He is lusting after her body and that is a motivator for him to do the unthinkable. Once he is given into lust, he leads his life “under the influence” of a drug called lust. Continue reading Lust On a Driver Seat
I remember one true story I heard few years ago. I heard it from the man whose perspective about porn has been impacted by his dad.
When he was 24 years of age, he was moving out of his apartment to go to another one because of his job location. And he called his dad to help him out. So the whole day, father and son were moving that single man’s stuff from one apartment to the other. After they finished setting up the apartment, the father wanted to make sure that everything was out of his son’s truck. So he went out and searched through the truck. Then he saw a piece of paper under the car mats. He reached to it thinking that it was a piece of paper but actually it was a porn magazine. Right when he pulled it all out, his son came behind him and snatched it from his hand. His dad said nothing. Continue reading Change of Perspective
Before I start my day, let me bring three things to your attention.
First, I want to say “thank you” to all of you who have shared your life stories with me so that I would share it with everyone. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your kindness. I still have some stories I didn’t get a chance to share but I promise I will do that soon. Continue reading Two Important Things
“What is special about this girl that I keep on being drawn in to” was the question he raised to himself after he tried to call her for the third time in one day.
“Is she ignoring my call or is she not interested to talk to me?” He didn’t like the fact that he was on the other side of the equation, the one who was being ignored.
He said to himself, “Whatever! She’s a girl; she will call me back. Let me ignore her.” But the truth of the matter is, he noticed something in her that he hasn’t seen in any other girl. And he knew that she wouldn’t call him if he didn’t keep trying.
“Wow, she is very different” he said to himself. And he said, “Maybe I’m just exaggerating things. She is not that different from other girls.” But still there was that nagging curiosity which made him subject to stare at his phone for a long period of time, waiting to see her name popping up as her call came in. Continue reading When God Surprises the Prodigal Son With His Beautiful Gift
“I’ve been following you since the first day. I’m reading everything you are writing and posting on the page. I can’t tell you how much I learned within these few months. I was convicted of my sins multiple times and I also rejoiced many times with the Good News through Christ you tend to share on your writings.
But I’ve never pressed like nor dropped my comment because I did all the dating and marriage business wrong. So if I press like and drop those comments like “Amen”, I feel like I may look a hypocrite. Continue reading Very Interesting!
“If you are asked to give only ONE advice for a single man
who wants to do dating in God’s way, what would be that one advice?”
Keep your hands and lips away from the girl until you make her your wife! ///
“I share a three bedroom apartment with two of my friends. Two of them are born-again Christians (as they told me). Since we have different work schedule, we don’t go to church together. We get along just fine when it comes to keeping our apartment clean and everything but when it comes to sexuality; their sexually compromised lifestyle bothers me a lot. One of them is now dating a woman who is married. The other one is dating different girls and always ends up being physical with them. After that he damps them to come home and laugh about it. I don’t know what I need to do. Do I need to move out of that apartment or confront them?”
My Dear Brother, I thank you very much for caring for your brothers in Christ. I believe that is how it should be if we are truly in Christ Jesus. Continue reading To Fight or Flight – Which One?
Hi A4P fans:
Hope this message finds you all in good health! I will be on Facebook for the next two and half hours and if you happen to have a question or two, let me know. If it is something I think I have an answer for, I will let you know. If I have no clue, I will let you know of that too and we will look for an answer together.
In the meantime, I will post one wonderful question with my answer.
Looking forward to hearing from you,
In Him, Missy.
P. S. If you read this via email, send me your question through my email: missysaltandlight
“The End” is a wonderful phrase at the end of a boring or, in my case, a scary movie.
In the flip side of it, I don’t like “The End” phrase especially at the end of “Tommy and Jerry” kinds of shows.
And when we come to a real life, don’t you think the invisible “The End” phrase comes up very soon after every good and memorable moment? Don’t you want to “pause” your life at your wedding dinner party or Honeymoon night, or at those exciting delivery room experiences of seeing your first child for the first time? Continue reading “Help! My husband says he doesn’t want sex anymore”