Yes, Love needs time

It is good to know the love language of our spouses. Otherwise we speak in English, they hear us in Germany. This not only creates misunderstanding but it also creates chaos in the home. However knowing our spouses’ love language is not good enough.

Once we know they have a different love language than ours, we need to learn to speak it. How can we speak their language if their language is foreign to us? We have to spend time with them so that we learn and practice how to say all “the phonetics”. Continue reading Yes, Love needs time

Love Needs Time

As a plant needs sunlight, water and minerals (soil) for it to grow, love needs time to grow. The outside attraction won’t last long. For love to be rooted deep in the heart, it requires time which is , purposely and consciously, set apart for it to grow.