Singleness is a gift from God. Think about it! When we came to this life, we didn’t really get a chance to choose our parents, siblings, our neighborhood, or country. We just “boom” and found ourselves in this world. We didn’t have a chance to say “Okay, God, try again. I don’t like my surroundings.” No, we can’t say that. We are here and so are our parents, families, tribes, surroundings and everything else.
A wonderful book to read: “Sex, Romance, and the Glory of God” by C. J. Mahaney
Guess what the subtitle says?
Here is the disclaimer before I address the question: I only answer this question to the best of my knowledge and understanding of the topic at hand.
Here are the beautiful girls who signed up for Appeal for Purity’s competition called, “The Esther’s Like Modesty”:
“Why can’t I enjoy sex like my friends? Why is it always me to be depressed after I have sex? I know I am not married yet but God knows everything. I am not having sex because I hate God or anything. It seems like God is picking on me among my friends.”