No, I won’t get tired of begging you (parents, husbands and wives) not to end your marriage.
No, please! Don’t let go of your marriage. Divorce won’t solve anything. Please fight for your marriage and save your children.
I thank you all for liking the previous post. Yes, the story of my grandma means a lot to me. But only a few of you have asked me further questions, such as, “What happened with her kids?”
Yes, my grandma ran away when she couldn’t take anymore suffering. She is my grandma, but the rippling effect of her decision to run away from her marriage affected me, her grandchild, in many ways.
No, I am not saying, my grandma should have died in the situation she was in, but I am saying that I wish somebody had come and rescued my grandpa from a wrong path and shown him the right way. Then maybe, he could have been a husband to his wife and a father to his children. Of course, I also wish my grandma had a woman who showed her the way.
I don’t want to go into detail as to what happened to her kids after she left, but my grandpa, he even tried to breastfeed his little one, a man giving his breast to a baby, just so he could calm his little baby down.
If this doesn’t make you emotional, I don’t know what will.
Jesus said, “We must work the works of Him who sent Me as long as it is day; night is coming when no one can work.” John 9:4 NASB
While it is day today, seek help for your sick marriage and rescue the next generation from lots of griefs, heartaches and all kinds of pains. Otherwise the night will come soon. After that, it will be hard to work.
While you can run to someone today to save your marriage and children, don’t settle for a divorce. Running to someone who can help you is hard, but filing for a divorce is easy.
Jesus said,
“Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.” Matthew 7:13-14
Choose life today! Choose the narrow gate that only the few find.
You see, only in a marriage can we strive and save our children and the next generation, not in a divorce. We can only get fulfilled in life if we remain in our marriage and fight for it. The state of divorce is not compatible with our nature and being, internal and external, because WE ARE NOT CREATED FOR A DIVORCE BUT FOR A MARRIAGE.
Don’t listen to the devil who whispers into your ears:
“You can remarry! Look, Pastor “so and so” is divorced and he just got married. Look, Prophet “so and so”! He got rid of his nasty wife and now married with a lovely and submissive Christian woman. There is a beautiful life waiting for you after divorce.”
Satan is a liar!
Jesus said,
“He[Satan] was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies. ” John 8:44b NASB
Satan comes to us with his lies and ideas that stand against the truths of God to accomplish three things.
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I[Jesus] came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.” John 10:10 NASB
Please seek help!
Unhealthy marriages are also equally killers of the lives of the couples and their children. If your marriage is not healthy, you and your children CANNOT be healthy mentally, spiritually and emotionally.
Please seek help! I beg you in the name of Jesus! ///
Appreciation and credit for the video: Thank you Elias Gemechu Ro for this beautiful video! May God bless you!