When a person thinks of divorcing his/her spouse, the one thing, I think, they should to ask themselves is this: Am I planning to get a divorce thinking that “I got the wrong 🍎,” and I need to get busy to find that Right One?
If so, you’re totally wrong! Let me explain!
You see, simply put, your assumption is totally wrong because there is NO “Right person” in this side of heaven.
Our “rightness” fell from its “glorious rightfulness” once our fore-parents, Adam and Eve, decided to sin against God. That step of action itself made them “wrong.”
After that, the name of every offspring who comes to this earth became “Fallen Creature.”
That means if you are married, you had been successful in tricking another human being to think and believe that you were perfect and flawless! Duh! That is why he/she married you!
Now the fact that YOU are thinking about divorcing your spouse is nothing but funny!
I mean, what is your reason for divorce?
“My spouse at last found out who I truly am?” If that is your reason, I will give you a big thumbs up because that is true. And guess what? You too at last found out who you’re truly married to. That is good! Both of you are equally losers in that! So now from this newly revealed truth about each other, start a new marriage that is based on the truth.
But divorcing your spouse to look for another “Non-Fallen Human Being” on this fallen world is nothing but funny.
What you got it is the best as you can find! You may as well find a way to work it out with this same person than trying to start from scratch to live with another fallen one (of course after playing that “trick game,” all over again).
Don’t be a fool! Don’t divorce your spouse! There is no better one out there.! Your spouse is as best as a humane being can get. ///