A4P Guest: I am 23 years old. I go to a church where most of my high school and college friends go to. I had a crush on this guy that I went to high school and college with and now we both are graduating this year. And I, indirectly, let him know of my feeling about him and he directly said, “Now is the time for me to focus on my finals. Then after graduation, try to get a good paying job. After I find a good job, I will think about dating and all that stuff.” I believed him when he said d that to me but within a month or so I began seeing him with this girl I know and I have no doubt that they are dating. The thing I really want to ask him why he lied to me and tell him directly that I have a feeling for him but I’m sacred. Do you think it is a good idea? Continue reading I Care for Him
Category Archives: Sexual Purity
Once You Lose Your Soulmate
A4P Guest: Once you lose your soulmate, what is the meaning of life?
A4P: Wow! That sounds very sad! Tell me a little bit about how you lost your soulmate?
A4P Guest: He cheated on me and I was very upset with him and ignored him for a month. I was expecting him to call or something but he disappeared. Then I heard that he got married. Now I don’t want to live. Continue reading Once You Lose Your Soulmate
Men Dominance
This is one of the questions I often get from young people:
“So what age difference do you recommend for a couple to have?”
(Since there is no Bible reference for this, this will purely be my opinion.)
I usually answer this question like this: Continue reading Men Dominance
“Do I Have to Love My Wife?”
A4P Guest: Do I have to love my wife?
A4P: Uh-oh! Is that a question or a test if I reply back to you or not?
A4P Guest: A question.
A4P: Hmm! So let me see. May I ask you that same question? Do you have to love your wife?
A4P Guest: No, I don’t have to. Continue reading “Do I Have to Love My Wife?”
My Wife Holds Grudges
A4P Guest: My wife tends to hold grudges for years. It doesn’t matter if I say, “I am sorry.” Every opportunity she gets, she brings my past mistakes. I am very tired of that. We used to pray together but we don’t now anymore because again she has a problem with forgiveness. What do you advise me to do? Continue reading My Wife Holds Grudges
Let Them Marry Him
A4P Guest: Missy, please don’t be hard on me but let me ask you a quick question.
A4P: Sure, go ahead and ask and I try my best not to be hard on you as long as you’re not here to ask me one of those, “A guy I’m dating doesn’t care for my emotion. He lusts after every girl who passes him by but I know that he is mine because God spoke to me through different prophets and I love him very much. Do you think God will change him if I pray hard,” kind of questions. Continue reading Let Them Marry Him
The 2nd Mother Theresa
A4P Guest: I was seeing this guy I love very much! But because of his background and bad childhood, he is not faithful. I am not saying, he is stealing or anything but he tends to cheat on me on social media, something like that. Thinking that it would help him to stop that, I slept with him. I was a virgin. But that didn’t stop him. I asked him to seek help for the things that made him do all those kinds of things but he did not want. You see, his dad was an alcoholic who always beat his mom and physically abused him. My sisters and friends hardly understand him and his situations but I totally understand him and my heart bleeds for him every time I think about him. Anyways, to make it short, with the advice of my friends and sisters (I have two older sisters), I broke up with him. Just so I wouldn’t see him in church, I stopped going to church. It’s been now five months but I constantly think about him. I love him so much. What do I need to do? Continue reading The 2nd Mother Theresa
Love Never Ends
“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.“ 1 Corinthians 13:4-8aESV ///
Hooray! It’s February!
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I love to talk about love in the month of February. Oh yes, I do! Moreover I naturally love to talk about love, so I always look for a reason and February is known as the month of love, is it? ??♀️ Continue reading Hooray! It’s February!
What I Noticed In Ethiopia
Praise God!
After almost a month, my husband and I are back to our work, work of making a video message for you, our beloved followers. You have no idea how we’ve missed seeing you all, I mean, seeing you through the camera. I always envision seeing you. Continue reading What I Noticed In Ethiopia