A4P Guest: I’ve been seeing this man for the last 13 months and he proposed to me last month and gave me an expensive diamond ring. We both are Christians and we were planning to get married next summer. Two weeks ago, I found one text message on his phone from a woman. From her message, I could tell that he slept with her the night before I found the message. When I confronted him, he said, “I am not in love with her. I went to her because you said no for sex.” Now I feel like I need to call her and tell her that he is engaged to be married with me. Do you think she will leave my man alone? Continue reading “because you said no for sex” →