I don’t know about you but for me, this is the one solution I find for myself to live a quiet and peaceful life:
To let life go and let God be God in all.
You know, I am a kind of person who doesn’t appreciate surprise that much. I can only put one foot before the other with a specific plan ahead of time with a specific allotted time for each task and step. If something gets misaligned from my plan, my brain starts to hurt and I cannot think straight.