Category Archives: Truth

“I Now Missed My Period”

A4P Guest: I am married and have two little kids. My husband and I had sexual problems and we went to church for counseling. I don’t know how I can tell you this, but in short, I am in a relationship with the person who counseled us. I am crying writing this because Missy, I don’t know how I got here. The person I have relationship with sometimes preaches in our church. He doesn’t care about anything. I now missed my period for three weeks. I know, I am pregnant and I don’t think it is from my husband. I feel suffocated. I don’t know what to do, where to go. If this thing comes into the open, many people will get hurt, including my children. Do you think it is a sin for me if I take Plan B now? I am scared. Have you ever heard stories like this before? Or, am I the first one? And do you think there is hope for me and my children?

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“I Neither Have Time”

A4P Guest: “I have a very serious sexual struggle with porn, masturbation and sleeping with girls. It is just impossible for me to stop these things. I always find it very easy to convince a Christian girl to sleep with me whether she is a virgin or not. I always get up and decide never to do it again but I will find myself going back to it. I ran into your page recently, like a week ago and I decided to ask you one question. What should I do to stop this vicious circle of deciding never to do it and going back to it all over again? I want to straighten up my life before God. But please do me a favor; I don’t need a ten-page answer. I only need a one-line answer. I neither have time nor patience to read your long answers.”

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Invest On Your Marriage, not Wedding!

A wedding is not a marriage! A wedding is a ceremony and a marriage is a ministry. These two are very different. A wedding is a one day deal and after that, it is gone, done, finished, “finito”!

Whereas a marriage, it is a lifetime commitment. Wedding and marriage have to be handled differently. Here in America, “50 billion dollar a year is spent only for wedding ceremonies. One million copies of bridal magazines are sold each month” (from “Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts” – by Parrott and Parrott). Continue reading Invest On Your Marriage, not Wedding!