A4P Guest: Well, I am not sure where to begin. I am married and have a two year old girl. This is my second marriage. I am 35 years old. Yes, I am a born-again Christian. I got married with my second husband three years ago. And I am constantly thinking about my ex. I know this sounds crazy but I can’t stop thinking about him. I am learning about marriage a lot now and I can see clearly how my previous marriage could have been saved had I have known what I know today. Missy, my husband is a nice man but I am not in love with him. I am in love with my ex-husband. I don’t know what to do about that. My ex is married and there is no way for me to get back to him, I know that very well. And I don’t want to hurt my current husband and I don’t want my ex to divorce his wife either. But I have this constant wish that doesn’t leave my mind. I am crying when I type this but let me tell you my deepest wish: I want my ex-husband to call me and tell me that he still loves me. Missy, we used to love each other. I met him when I was 19, I was madly in love with him, so was he, and – – – I think I need to stop. I think I am depressed. I don’t know what to do or where to go. Can you help me?
Category Archives: Marriage
Let No One!
Divorce solves nothing.
Divorce only causes pains and hurts and mars life with lifetime guilt and regret.
Dating Unbelieving Person
From all the things God commanded His people, the Israelites, this one command got my attention last week:
“Do not plow with an ox and a donkey yoked together.” (Deuteronomy 22:10)
Okay, I clearly understand those commands such as, “Don’t kill” and “Don’t do adultery”; but “don’t yoke an ox and a donkey” command kind of got me a bit confused. Continue reading Dating Unbelieving Person
Hidden Beauty/Strength of a Woman
Hidden beauty/strength of a woman is explained by St. Peter like this:
Good Marriage From Heaven
You have no idea how many messages I receive from young people who ask me like this: Continue reading Good Marriage From Heaven
You Will Never Be Put to Shame!
Do you know that most children, when they are under their parents care, can be protected and rescued from future sexual addictions and dangerous lifestyles? Continue reading You Will Never Be Put to Shame!
Don’t Get Married While Drunk
A4P Guest: I’m going to get married next month!
A4P: Wow! Congratulations!
A4P Guest: I’m 27 and I’m a born-again Christian. My man, the one I can’t wait to marry, is a born-again Christian too. He plays bass for our church choir. Missy, I have never seen in my life a handsome man like him. He is beautiful in and out. His biblical understanding is just amazing. I am his first and he is my first too. He is very kind and honest man.
A Steward of His Wife’s Love
I dare to say that in every husband’s heart, there is this deep seated desire: a desire to keep on “Wooing” his wife.
He desires to impress his wife. He wants to be the source of her admiration, excitement and amazement.
Today is Our 21 Year Anniversary!
May our Lord Jesus Christ take all the glory, praise and honor!
Yes, today my husband and I celebrate our 21 year anniversary! It is because of God’s mercy and grace that we are able to see this day. We bless His name forever! Continue reading Today is Our 21 Year Anniversary!
21 Years!
My husband and I will celebrate our 21 year anniversary on Tuesday, March 27.
I was looking through our pictures and I said to myself, “Why don’t I start celebrating my anniversary tonight?”