I Care for Him

A4P Guest: I am 23 years old. I go to a church where most of my high school and college friends go to. I had a crush on this guy that I went to high school and college with and now we both are graduating this year. And I, indirectly, let him know of my feeling about him and he directly said, “Now is the time for me to focus on my finals. Then after graduation, try to get a good paying job. After I find a good job, I will think about dating and all that stuff.” I believed him when he said d that to me but within a month or so I began seeing him with this girl I know and I have no doubt that they are dating. The thing I really want to ask him why he lied to me and tell him directly that I have a feeling for him but I’m sacred. Do you think it is a good idea? Continue reading I Care for Him

Let Them Marry Him

A4P Guest: Missy, please don’t be hard on me but let me ask you a quick question.

A4P: Sure, go ahead and ask and I try my best not to be hard on you as long as you’re not here to ask me one of those, “A guy I’m dating doesn’t care for my emotion. He lusts after every girl who passes him by but I know that he is mine because God spoke to me through different prophets and I love him very much. Do you think God will change him if I pray hard,” kind of questions. Continue reading Let Them Marry Him

The 2nd Mother Theresa

A4P Guest: I was seeing this guy I love very much! But because of his background and bad childhood, he is not faithful. I am not saying, he is stealing or anything but he tends to cheat on me on social media, something like that. Thinking that it would help him to stop that, I slept with him. I was a virgin. But that didn’t stop him. I asked him to seek help for the things that made him do all those kinds of things but he did not want. You see, his dad was an alcoholic who always beat his mom and physically abused him. My sisters and friends hardly understand him and his situations but I totally understand him and my heart bleeds for him every time I think about him. Anyways, to make it short, with the advice of my friends and sisters (I have two older sisters), I broke up with him. Just so I wouldn’t see him in church, I stopped going to church. It’s been now five months but I constantly think about him. I love him so much. What do I need to do? Continue reading The 2nd Mother Theresa

Purity for the brave hearted!