The truth of the matter is: no one can get sexual fulfillment by attending his/her sexual urges outside the confinement of marriage that includes God. People, who seek sexual fulfillment outside the will of God, become slaves to all their sexual instincts. They can’t say “No” to any of their urges. Hunger and thirst for sexual fulfillment takes over their lives and makes them slaves. They get too obsessed as to how they meet their next sexual urges. They browse around from one website to another; from one social media to another with hopelessness and despair. They tend to say, “But I have more sexual desire than any normal person.”
But the truth is, most often than not, they are normal people with normal sexual desire; the difference is, they throw themselves in “the Sarah Desert” as they seek fulfillment without the will of God. They do all sorts of things, but they get nothing out of it.
“Is this true for unbelievers too, or is this true only for believers in Christ?”
Did I say, “When believers seek sexual fulfillment?” I said, “When people” which include any human being. If a person jumps from a high-rise building, he will die whether he is a believer or unbeliever. (Remember: Devil tempted Jesus to throw Himself down; but Jesus ain’t a fool – (Matthew 4:6); Jesus knows well that outside the will of God, there is only death, to both believers and unbelievers.)
As the law of gravity is true for believers and unbelievers, the truth of God is true whether one believes it or not.
“Okay, I got it. I heard you. Now I’m in it; I’m slave to my sexual urges, going to one website to another. I can’t even stop it. It is out of my control. I’m scared now even if I believe in God. What should I do about it?”
I wrote and posted on this page and on the Appeal for Purity (A4P) website (www.appealforpurity.com) more than 450 articles and I uploaded more than 50 video messages on the A4P YouTube channel (www.youtube.com/appealforpurity). Read and listen; and apply all the Biblical principles and advice you find in them into your life. One advice I constantly give is this: James 5:16 – Read it and apply it into your life. Be not only a hearer but a doer; don’t look for a quick fix. Believe in hard work. ///