I talked about the wrong, sometimes sinful, reasons to get married on this page on different occasions. Continue reading Wrong Reasons To Get Married
Category Archives: Singles
Thinks About Sex Every Four Minutes
I am sure by now you know that I have a beautiful cat named Kimmem (means, spice). By the way, this cat belongs to my only daughter, Lydia. I am just a care-giver and when money is needed to buy anything for Kimmem, I am the bank Lydia comes to – if you know what I mean.
So, yesterday was Kimmem’s first doctor’s appointment and she received two shots for rabies and for something else, I forgot.
“She Should Know Better”
“Hi Berhan, I was just calling to say hi and to wish you a happy Easter!”
This was a message I found in my answering machine right after I celebrated my first year wedding anniversary.
My first reaction was, “Who is this woman that is wishing my husband a happy Easter, ignoring the fact that I’m his wife?”
“He Does Not Want Sex Anymore”
Some young wives cry themselves to sleep every night and they have no one to tell their problem to, or if they do have people, they don’t know how to share their problem to others or are scared to talk about their problem. Continue reading “He Does Not Want Sex Anymore”
“Why Do Women Act Like Crazy?”
A4P Guest: May the Lord bless you for what you’re doing!
A4P: Amen! Thank you for your kind words!
A4P Guest: May I ask you a question?
A4P: Yes, please do!
Grooming Each Other For Sex
A4P Guest: I am a 26 year old woman. I’ve been seeing this man I met in my church. He is 29 years old. We both are in our church choir and worship team. We both have never been in a relationship before. We love each other and we plan to get married at the end of this year, if God wills. So, my question is, is it okay for us to kiss?
A4P: If you specify the kind of kiss you’re talking about, I may be able to tell you. Continue reading Grooming Each Other For Sex
Marry Him!
A4P Guest: Missy, if you were a single woman today, what would be the three main characteristics you would be looking for in a man?
A4P: I love this question! Do you know why?
Well, I think I already told you this but one of the things I was looking for in a man when I was single, young and “st***d” was six-pack abs. It is very embarrassing to admit that now, but it was true.
The Sacred Search
A beautiful book I forgot to recommend with my latest post!
“The Sacred Search” by Gary Thomas. Continue reading The Sacred Search
“He Avoids the Topic of Marriage”
A4P Guest: I’m a 36 year-old woman and I’ve been dating a man (38 years old) for a couple years now. We both are born again Christians. This year, I was expecting him to propose to me but he doesn’t even talk about marriage at all. I told him in several occasions how much I desire to get married. But he usually changes the subject and avoids it totally. What do you advise me to do?
A4P: I have few questions for you before I jump into answering your questions. So, what do you mean when you say you are dating a man? How do you define dating? How does dating look like in your relationship? Continue reading “He Avoids the Topic of Marriage”
And I Love Him!
Have you ever had this kind conversation with a young woman about the man she is dating and thinking of marrying:
You: “How come I don’t see the man you’re dating in church?”
The woman: “He does not like to come to church.”
You: “Why not? He does not believe in God?” Continue reading And I Love Him!