A4P Guest: I am 23 years old. I go to a church where most of my high school and college friends go to. I had a crush on this guy that I went to high school and college with and now we both are graduating this year. And I, indirectly, let him know of my feeling about him and he directly said, “Now is the time for me to focus on my finals. Then after graduation, try to get a good paying job. After I find a good job, I will think about dating and all that stuff.” I believed him when he said d that to me but within a month or so I began seeing him with this girl I know and I have no doubt that they are dating. The thing I really want to ask him why he lied to me and tell him directly that I have a feeling for him but I’m sacred. Do you think it is a good idea? Continue reading I Care for Him
Category Archives: Singles
Once You Lose Your Soulmate
A4P Guest: Once you lose your soulmate, what is the meaning of life?
A4P: Wow! That sounds very sad! Tell me a little bit about how you lost your soulmate?
A4P Guest: He cheated on me and I was very upset with him and ignored him for a month. I was expecting him to call or something but he disappeared. Then I heard that he got married. Now I don’t want to live. Continue reading Once You Lose Your Soulmate
“Do I Have to Love My Wife?”
A4P Guest: Do I have to love my wife?
A4P: Uh-oh! Is that a question or a test if I reply back to you or not?
A4P Guest: A question.
A4P: Hmm! So let me see. May I ask you that same question? Do you have to love your wife?
A4P Guest: No, I don’t have to. Continue reading “Do I Have to Love My Wife?”
Let Them Marry Him
A4P Guest: Missy, please don’t be hard on me but let me ask you a quick question.
A4P: Sure, go ahead and ask and I try my best not to be hard on you as long as you’re not here to ask me one of those, “A guy I’m dating doesn’t care for my emotion. He lusts after every girl who passes him by but I know that he is mine because God spoke to me through different prophets and I love him very much. Do you think God will change him if I pray hard,” kind of questions. Continue reading Let Them Marry Him
The Choice Is The Same
Do you want to know about something?
No problem! Knowledge is at your fingertips. Do you want to know something deeper than what you already knew? No problem! Just give it your time and attention and you will have an ample of knowledge. That means, we can safely say, “This world has no lack of knowledge.” Continue reading The Choice Is The Same
“But You Loved Me Anyway”
Sitting in the dark room, in the middle of the night, he began sweating as if he ran five miles. The question which kept on coming in his mind was, “How did I end up here?”
He grew up in the church. He knows more Bible verses than anybody else. Growing up, he was considered as one of the spiritual young men who could take the next pastoral position in the church. Even as a young lad, some people used to come and ask him to pray for them. Continue reading “But You Loved Me Anyway”
Which Sin Can I Do
If somebody asks you one of these questions:
“What kind of sin can God tolerate?” or “Which sin can I do without severing my relationship with the Holy Spirit?”
I mean, do you run to your Bible to give to the person a lists of sins which God tolerates or sins a person can do without grieving the Holy Spirit who lives in them?
No brainer, right? Continue reading Which Sin Can I Do
At Last!
One of my favorite theologians once said, “God has a real sense of humor,” and he chuckled.
I was not happy with that. I mean, God, having a sense of humor? It sounded to me as if he made God equal to himself, a mere human being. I was a bit upset with him but since I love his books and most of his messages, I quickly forgave him and moved to his next points.
A Marriageable Person
How many ministers, Gospel singers, pastors, choir and sole singers and in general Christians, followers of Jesus Christ have to go through divorce before a single Christian person, who is preparing to get married, stops and asks:
“What went wrong with the marriages of these people? What can I learn from their mistakes? I have to know their reasons because “I am no better than my ancestors, I may end up doing the same thing.” Continue reading A Marriageable Person
Watch Out!
Are you desperate to get married? Does the thought of getting married consume you? Do you find yourself browsing through social media to see if someone is interested in you?
Well, most nutritionists advise us not to go to grocery shopping while hungry. Do you know why? Well, if we are hungry, we buy anything regardless of the fat content and the calorie count of the food and we end up destroying our health and excellent body figure.