Category Archives: Singles

She Cheated On Me Three Times

A4P Guest: My plan since I was a child is to get married when I turn 25. I am a born-again Christian man and I am dating a 22-year old girl. She is a born-again Christian too. I am 24 years old now. So, if things go well, I plan to get married next summer. Unfortunately, I found out that the girl I am dating has cheated on me.

A4P: Oh, no! I’m so sorry this happened to you. How did you find out? Did she confess or you caught her? Continue reading She Cheated On Me Three Times

A Boyfriend or A Husband?

A4P Guest: I am a born again Christian. And I’m seeing a born again Christian man I met through a common friend. We both are 27-year olds – he is three months older than me. I love him very much and he loves me too. After we started dating, he joined my church so we see each other at least three or four times a week. We get along just fine but sometimes I feel like he competes with me.

A4P: What does that mean? Give me a specific example so I understand what exactly you’re saying. Continue reading A Boyfriend or A Husband?

I Care for Him

A4P Guest: I am 23 years old. I go to a church where most of my high school and college friends go to. I had a crush on this guy that I went to high school and college with and now we both are graduating this year. And I, indirectly, let him know of my feeling about him and he directly said, “Now is the time for me to focus on my finals. Then after graduation, try to get a good paying job. After I find a good job, I will think about dating and all that stuff.” I believed him when he said d that to me but within a month or so I began seeing him with this girl I know and I have no doubt that they are dating. The thing I really want to ask him why he lied to me and tell him directly that I have a feeling for him but I’m sacred. Do you think it is a good idea? Continue reading I Care for Him