Category Archives: Singles

“There Are No Men Like That”

When a testosterone rush bombards a young man’s brain, he can’t think logically. He has no way of controlling his urges, and his brain will be taken over by the notoriously hard-to-resist hormones.

However these same hormones can be channeled, harnessed, and bridled by the renewed mind of a young man. (NOTICE the difference between mind and brain here.) Continue reading “There Are No Men Like That”

You Rather Be Single For Life

It is wonderful to see couples tying the knot to be one, never to be two.

As a married person and a teacher in the area of sexual purity, I can’t tell you how I rejoice whenever I see a wedding.

Yes, the Bible says that marriage protects us from being soaked in sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 7). What a joy then to see someone escaping such a “ruthless tyrant” as sexual immorality! Continue reading You Rather Be Single For Life

“Am I to Confront Them Openly”

A4P Guest: I’m a 26 year old girl. I used to live in Texas but a year ago, I moved to the DMV area so I can be close to my families. As a follower of Jesus Christ, I believe that I need to lead a “set-apart” (holy) life for the glory of Jesus Christ, by walking according to His Word and to eventually draw others to His light. As a body of Christ, we are called to live holy as Jesus lived which means set apart, not conforming to the patterns of this world. After I came to the DMV area, I have made new Ethiopian friends who go to church, sing worship songs to God, raise their hands, cry unto God, etc. Continue reading “Am I to Confront Them Openly”

“Is Oral Sex Allowed?”

A4P Guest: Is oral sex allowed?

A4P: What do you mean?

A4P Guest: I thought my question was clear.

A4P: Well, your question is not clear for me. It sounds like there is a list of allowed and not allowed things in the Bible. As far as I understood the Bible, there is no list for us to follow after; we only have two commandments to live by: to love God and to love our neighbors as ourselves (Matthew 22:34-40). So, if you give me some background story as to where this question came from, I may be able to address your question candidly, in light of these two commandments.

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