If you are “testing” sex before marriage to see if you and your partner are sexually compatible, you’re tricked by the sexual message of this dark world.
“Sexual-compatibility” itself is a misnomer since we can’t test somebody’s body sexually, like we taste a good burger, and conclude that we are compatible or incompatible with them. Continue reading Sexual Compatibility Test→
To those young men who wrote to Paul with excitement because of their sexual abstinence (staying away from any sexual relationship with women), Paul wrote them back saying:
A4P Guest: I’m 21 years old and I hear some people in my church saying that it is wrong for a girl to ask a man for a date. I don’t agree with that. It might be wrong in the first century because women didn’t even have a right to make their voices heard let alone ask a man for a date; but now, in the 21st century, I think there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy for a date. We all are equal, aren’t we? The question shouldn’t be who ask first but whether or not we like each other.
All too often, I get asked this question: “Who would listen to this? I mean, who would listen to what you’re saying regarding kissing and sex before marriage and apply it to life? This is 21st century.” Continue reading Who Would Listen To This→
A4P Guest: “I’m a 21 year old girl, new for this dating business. I met this amazing guy, 26 years old, in my church. We were friends for almost six months. I believe I’m deeply in love with him but he doesn’t know that. I covered that part of the story real well. And when he asked me out, I was about to pass out. I’m not kidding. He is my dream man. Now, we are going to meet for the first time, next Saturday for lunch. This lunch will mark our first official date but I’m very nervous. I don’t want to mess things up; I just don’t want to lose him. What do you advise me to do?”
