If you want a guaranteed nomination for oddball of the year, announce to your friends or coworkers that you think sex is only for marriage. Most view such archaic notions as eccentric and even bizarre. Virgins are made to feel like nerds. If you haven’t “gotten lucky” by age 18, it’s probably because you’re a social reject. Continue reading “Try Before You Buy?”→
If you are “testing” sex before marriage to see if you and your partner are sexually compatible, you’re tricked by the sexual message of this dark world.
“Sexual-compatibility” itself is a misnomer since we can’t test somebody’s body sexually, like we taste a good burger, and conclude that we are compatible or incompatible with them. Continue reading Sexual Compatibility Test→
To those young men who wrote to Paul with excitement because of their sexual abstinence (staying away from any sexual relationship with women), Paul wrote them back saying:
A4P Guest: I’m 21 years old and I hear some people in my church saying that it is wrong for a girl to ask a man for a date. I don’t agree with that. It might be wrong in the first century because women didn’t even have a right to make their voices heard let alone ask a man for a date; but now, in the 21st century, I think there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy for a date. We all are equal, aren’t we? The question shouldn’t be who ask first but whether or not we like each other.
All too often, I get asked this question: “Who would listen to this? I mean, who would listen to what you’re saying regarding kissing and sex before marriage and apply it to life? This is 21st century.” Continue reading Who Would Listen To This→
