Category Archives: Singles

“For the Man the King Delights to Honor”

You know, as a teacher of sexual purity and marriage, I so far talked to many young people from all walks of life regarding dating, sex and marriage and this is the common comment I get: “I love your teaching and the way you explain it but honestly speaking, nobody is living to the standard of God’s word. I mean, look no further. Look in your church. Who will wait until marriage these days? Whether a person is a son or daughter of a pastor, or she/he is a pastor themselves, they don’t wait for marriage. So, don’t you get discouraged to still speak about sexual purity, virginity and all that?” Continue reading “For the Man the King Delights to Honor”

“What do you do with shy men?”

A4P Guest: I am 25 years old and one of the more active members in our church. I am involved at least in two ministries and I think I consider my Christian walk with Christ good and healthy.

A4P: Good. So, what is your question for me?

A4P Guest: Okay, so, there is this guy in my church. He too serves in the church and we usually work together. I am very much attracted to him and I think, he is attracted to me. The problem is, I think, he is shy. I mean, what do you do with shy men?

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Joseph Said “No” to Free Sex. How?

One very important thing we need to teach our little kids:

To our girls: We tell them how fearfully, wonderfully and beautifully God had created them. When a little girl hears this from her parents, especially from the first man she comes to know, her father, she won’t go around and look for it in all wrong places. A girl is created by God to receive love, to be admired of her beauty. That is why God commands husbands to love their wives. (Ephesians 5:21-31) This is found to be very effective method to decrease the number of teen pregnancy in America. Continue reading Joseph Said “No” to Free Sex. How?

A Medicine For Loneliness

A4P Guest: Hi Missy, How are you doing? I want to ask you about a recent issue I’ve been dealing with. Long story short, there is this man I know from my church. He recently asked me for a relationship. I told him that I needed time to think before I give him a yes or no answer. Then we started hanging out just for a cup of tea because I thought that would help me to know him better. People from my church (my spiritual fathers) encouraged me to move with it (to accept his request). As far as I have noticed in this few weeks, he’s a good man and he always tries to take care of me. I haven’t seen anything wrong in his personality.

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