There are great purposes why God created marriage, a covenantal relationship between one man and one woman. And one of the zillion purposes of marriage is to raise kids who are mentally and emotionally healthy.
Healthy marriages are like “Petri Dishes” to grow “healthy and godly children” on. When that “Petri Dish” that good ground is disturbed, the ones who suffer the most are kids.
Continue reading Healthy marriages protect kids From Sexual addiction
Well, as you all know, Appeal for Purity is holding its very first modesty competition, called “The Esther’s Kind of Modesty”.
Eighteen beautiful girls signed for it and before the competition started, seven of them quit for different personal reasons.
Then after the competition started, after the first round of competition, six of them quit.
One of the young men who came to me for help this week had this problem: He often sees in his dream having sex with the same woman. This woman is not the woman he knows in real life, he only knows her in his dream. He finds himself being orgasmic whenever he sees this dream. Here is his whole story:
(Thank you my dear brother for letting me use your story and your question. May the LORD bless you!)
I’m telling you, you guys made my day! What a morning! I love it!
You know what, I saw many people have dropped off their messages around 11:58 and 11:59pm. I wish I could afford to send you all the gift!
From Nuremberg, Germany
“I’m a 25 year-old, single girl, and a student. I have been part of A4P for a while now. Excuse my English it’s not that good but I’m sure you will understand what I’m trying to say. I have been living in Germany for about 5 years now and have been in 3 different relationships so far.
Oops, I think I did! Sorry I’m very excited about it. You have no idea what is going on behind the scene!
Only God is worthy to receive all the glory and praise for making this ministry to stay strong throughout this year! If it was for the devil and enemy of my soul, not only this ministry but I would have been long forgotten! Continue reading Did I already say “Happy Anniversary to Appeal for Purity?”
Let’s first see a theoretical story as an example for the many similar real and true stories I frequently encounter in my ministry:
A couple, while they were dating, they kept on putting themselves in a very tempting environment. Their relationship didn’t start that way. Both of them had clear boundaries when it comes to sexual purity and they communicated that clearly but they let one compromise sneak in to their relationship.
The most depressing, frustrating and disappointing reason to marry is to have sex. Do you know why? Well, let me give one analogy to make my point clear:
Let’s assume that a married couple has sexual intimacy three times a week. (I’m not suggesting that having sex three times a week is the norm or anything. It can be a norm for some and for some, three times a week may feel like a fasting season).
Thank you so much for all of you who stopped by at my inbox to let me know how much A4P benefited you in many ways and levels! I thank God for it! And may all the glory and praise be to Jesus Christ!
Yes, it feels really good to hear from you guys because sometimes I feel like nobody is out there to hear me. Yes, as it is with every Facebook page owner, it is good to see lots of “Likes” on a post but for me personally, I want to hear from the hearts of people who are reading my messages. And today, you all let me hear from your heart. So, thank you so much guys!
One of the two most pivotal moments of my teen years occurred when I was in elementary school. I was twelve years old. In the middle of our recess time, one of my friends who was a boy, came running towards me, away from his friends. He wanted to show me the magazine that he was holding but one of his friends was fighting to take it from him. I didn’t know what the magazine was all about but I wanted to see it. So, I joined the fight to get the magazine and I took it from his hand and randomly flipped the pages.
Continue reading The Two Most Pivotal Moments of My Teen Years