Do you know the one dangerous fallacy sexually addicted people can hold on to? They think that they have more sexual needs and desires (or more sexual hormones) than the average people.
But the truth of the matter is being addicted for example to porn and masturbation has little or no relationship with sexual needs or desires. Sexual addiction has everything to do with a lonely soul, a soul which is wounded and hurt; a soul which is drowning in its own secrets; a soul which is told repeatedly to be quiet, and more. Continue reading We Need Others to Get Healed→
Dr. Myles Munroe had wonderful sayings and quotes. Before I tell you my number one favorite saying from him, let me share with you some of my favorites:
The only man-minister I heard in my life who said, in public, in front of a camera, calling his wife on a stage, “This is the woman who took my virginity!”
Dr. Myles Munroe! He and his wife with their crew members died in a plane crash on November 09.
I forgot his name but he said, “If you want to maintain the romance in your marriage, you need to keep the following three things in your marriage on a daily basis:
1. Kiss daily at least for 30 seconds
2. Pray together at lease for 3 minutes.
3. Sit and talk about life for 30 minutes.”
Wow! Talk about being practical, nothing comes closer to this! ///
When a wife says to her husband, “I feel so stressed and down,” she is not asking him to fix her, or fix the conflict she has at her job or fix her kids who might be driving her crazy.
No, no, no! She is not asking him that. All she is asking him is this: “Can you show me some love so that I can pick myself up to fix my problems and be respectful towards you?”
Yes, it is for freedom Christ has set us free but after we are set free from our sin, we have to learn how to live that free life Christ died for; a life that is free from sinful and destructive lifestyles.
There are great purposes why God created marriage, a covenantal relationship between one man and one woman. And one of the zillion purposes of marriage is to raise kids who are mentally and emotionally healthy.
Healthy marriages are like “Petri Dishes” to grow “healthy and godly children” on. When that “Petri Dish” that good ground is disturbed, the ones who suffer the most are kids.
