A4P Guest: I came to your page recently and I am trying to catch up with your writings going into your website archives. I love what I read so far except one, titled “Broke my heart into pieces” where you advised a wife to call 911 because her husband was abusing her physically. I can’t believe that you are advising the woman to do that. I am a living testimony where I changed from one person to another completely different person because of my wife’s patience and prayer. Twelve years ago, I used to abuse her physically, mentally and emotionally. Right now, I am a loving husband to her and a loving father to my two sons. If my wife had called 911 during that time, our marriage would have been history. So, why don’t you advise wives to be submissive enough as the Bible says so that their husbands will change and their marriages will be saved instead of advising them to call 911?”
Category Archives: Marriage
One Basic Principle for questions such as “Is oral sex okay?”
This video clip should give one basic principle for the common questions I usually receive in my inbox, questions such as “Is this kind of sex position okay” or “Is oral sex okay?”
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A God of Second Chance
She is very good at making people feel at home. Most people get attracted to her because she gives everything she has; her time, money or anything she can give. But one thing people don’t know about her is this: She gives everything she has because she is scared of being left alone.
As she quietly celebrated her 46th birthday in her townhouse, she turned the TV on and sat down across the TV. She didn’t even know why she turned it on because she was not watching. She was “zoomed out” to somewhere else. As if the TV was talking to her, reaching to the remote control, she said, “I don’t think you be of any help for me today,” and she turned it off.
She wished if someone called and said, “Happy birthday! Let’s go out and have fun,” but who? Just ten years ago, her phone used to ring every minute. Not anymore.
She had to initiate any fun; and as long as she provided, most people would accept her invitation. Party, lunch, breakfast, picnic, home party, dinner party; you name it, she did it all so that she would be with others. But one thing she yearned; and that was for someone to look for her; to ask her out for lunch or something. Continue reading A God of Second Chance
Going Grocery Shopping while Hungry
I just came back from grocery. I didn’t know that I was hungry until I entered the Costco store. These people know exactly what kind of food to take out, at what time. At every corner, there is a table where you can go and taste different foods; foods such as ice cream, burger, lasagna, soup, cookie, and, hold on a second, and DARK CHOCOLATE!
I mean, who can resist DARK CHOCOLATE! Not me! I ate it like nobody’s business.
Wonderful opportunity!
Praise the LORD for an excellent opportunity!
I will be traveling on November 28 to San Francisco, California to teach on the area of sexual purity at Addis Kidan Church of San Francisco!
I will be speaking to teenagers on the subject “Inviting God to Our Personal Life” (in English).
Two General Questions and Two General Principles
Basic principle to come out of sexual addiction; and for couples who have sexual problems.
My Number one Favorite Saying from Dr. Munroe
Dr. Myles Munroe had wonderful sayings and quotes. Before I tell you my number one favorite saying from him, let me share with you some of my favorites:
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Finished my Four Weeks class on Sexual Intimacy
Hooray! I just finished four weeks of teaching in my church on the topic of sexual intimacy for married couples.
So, before I expire for the day, let me share with you at least one and half minute of the video of today’s teaching, titled “What a wife wants her husband to know about her sexual nature”. I hope you enjoy it.
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Cute Advice for Married Couples I heard on the radio!
I forgot his name but he said, “If you want to maintain the romance in your marriage, you need to keep the following three things in your marriage on a daily basis:
1. Kiss daily at least for 30 seconds
2. Pray together at lease for 3 minutes.
3. Sit and talk about life for 30 minutes.”
Wow! Talk about being practical, nothing comes closer to this! ///
Before I check out for the day, let me share this with you all.
Yesterday, I spent some time with my good Ethiopian brothers in Christ, discussing about the effect of eating raw meat. After the discussion, they recommended that I mention the topic here on A4P’s Facebook page. So, here we go.
Well, do you know eating raw meat can be a risk factor for erectile dysfunction (ED)? Yes, it is. Continue reading Before I check out for the day, let me share this with you all.