Category Archives: Marriage

“But You Loved Me Anyway”

Sitting in the dark room, in the middle of the night, he began sweating as if he ran five miles. The question which kept on coming in his mind was, “How did I end up here?”

He grew up in the church. He knows more Bible verses than anybody else. Growing up, he was considered as one of the spiritual young men who could take the next pastoral position in the church. Even as a young lad, some people used to come and ask him to pray for them. Continue reading “But You Loved Me Anyway”

Liking the Person You Love

Loving someone and liking the same person you love are two totally different things. I mean those two terms are related but they are not synonymous. For instance, you may love someone but you may not like them to the point of spending the whole day and the whole night with them, savoring every moment. For example, you may love your dad but you may not want to spend the whole day with him. Continue reading Liking the Person You Love

Wanna Look Attractive to My Hubby

A4P Guest: “I was not overweight before I got married. After I had my two kids, I gained more than 20 pounds and I am still struggling to lose but nothing seems to work. My major problem though is my embarrassment before my husband. I feel like he doesn’t like me anymore because of the extra pounds I put on especially around my belly. I feel so unattractive. I feel exposed whenever I think of sexual intimacy. My husband repeatedly told me that he doesn’t care. Does weight gain affect sexual intimacy? What do I need to do to feel good about myself and enjoy my intimate moments with my husband as I used to?” Continue reading Wanna Look Attractive to My Hubby