Category Archives: Family

Talk to Your Kids About How “Every Life Matters”

May our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, comfort families and friends of those who lost their lives in Louisiana, Minnesota and Dallas.

If you have kids, please talk to them about the news. Don’t think that your kids don’t need to know about this or don’t have any idea about what’s going on.

My husband was telling me on the phone how he decided to do our family Saturday Bible study on this very topic. Continue reading Talk to Your Kids About How “Every Life Matters”

Did My Brain Start Making Up Stories? Or What?

According to the CBN news, UN committee says, “Taking kids to church violates human rights.”
 
Hold on a second: What does the committee want me to do with my kids?
 
Ridiculous!
 
I mean, seriously, they are bold, aren’t they? I wish I had that boldness to share the Gospel with others! Truth to be told, this is not a laughing matter; but a serious one because as it’s always been; first, idea comes, then, implementation of that same idea will follow. That is how we’ve come this far.

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Looking for That Perfect Season of Life 

Motherhood

After we had our three kids, my prayer time got shorter and shorter and kind of disappeared in thin air. When the Holy Spirit comes and whispers in my ears saying, “Why don’t you pray now?” I will immediately say, “I’m not able to; can’t You see?” And the Holy Spirit asks, “Why can’t you?” I will say, “The children You gave me take all my time and energy and I have no strength left to pray and read the Word.” In a way, I was saying to Him, “If it was not for my children, I would have been praying and worshiping You; but since they are here, sorry, I can’t do that.”

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If Your Wife Says This – – –

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Someone dropped this poster in my inbox and I laughed very hard. Why? It has some truth.

When an argument or a conflict erupts between a husband and a wife, I believe a man has to be very wise from which side he has to present his case.

Most of us women are very good at remembering events that happened ten or twenty five years ago; but not our husbands. We can remember because we tend to “tag” every event with emotion; which is a big help for our brain to retrieve past stories quickly and very easily. Our men, on the other hand, usually don’t tag events with “Oh, my! I love that!” Or “Aww! That is awesome!” Or, “My! That deeply hurt my feeling and I don’t think I will ever forget it” kind of emotion. So, it is easy for them to forget it.

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“Mom, what is this sex thing?”

It was one of those normal late weekday afternoons. I was running around to bake something for snack. My daughter, who was at the time seven years old, was trying to help out her mama. She brought a step stool to stand next to me. My little one, who was five, was sitting down at the kitchen tea-table. He was a brand new kindergartner and I thought he didn’t have much to say about his new school.
 
Then from nowhere, he said, “Mom, what is this sex thing?”
 
Just imagine me. I looked as though someone splashed cold water on my face. I immediately turned around to him and opened my mouth but all those vocabularies which used to hang out in my mouth and everything I read from Dr. James Dobson’s books disappeared from my brain and heart in an instant. So, I opened my mouth and got frozen as if someone pressed a “pause button” of my life.
 

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Who Should Prime the Pump?

When a husband receives respect from his wife, he finds it very easy to love his wife. In the same way, when a wife receives unconditional love from her husband, respecting and honoring her husband becomes her second nature.
 
But, for this biblical love-respect principle to work in a marriage, somebody has to “prime the pump” first.
 
Who? A husband or a wife?
 
One of them who is spiritually more matured and the one who loves Christ more will do. ///