“The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Genesis 2:18

A suitable helper or “a helpmate” in the Hebrew word is Ezer Kenegdo and guess what that translates in to: A LIFESAVER.
No wonder divorced men die quicker than the men who stayed in their marriages. Remarriage doesn’t change the life expectancy of a divorced man. The only thing that is better for a man to do in this life is, first, to find a woman to marry, and second, decide to live with her until he dies.

After all, living with a woman is easy.
“Are you crazy?” you may say.
No, I’m not crazy. It is very easy to live with a woman. All you have to do is this: Love her and she will die for you.
I mean, who complains about living with a “dead person?” No one! If she is dead, she won’t bug you. Think about it.
And nothing can kill and bury a woman than love. Do you think God was joking when He said, “Husbands, love you wives as Jesus loved the church and died for her?” No, He was not joking. He was actually giving you the best life-lesson tip you could ever find.
You see, if you don’t love your wife but decide to live with her or decide to divorce her, you will lose both ways. How?
Well, if you decide to live with her without showing her love, your life will be hell on earth. If you divorce her, you will “check-out” from this life sooner than you want to. Yeah, that is actually the findings of many researchers. If you don’t marry her, you will die soon too. The only best thing for you to do is to marry her and decide to love her until you die.
By the way, that is what the Word of God says, in a nutshell, when it says “husbands, love your wife as Jesus loved the church and died for her.” So, take God’s way, which is always the best way anyways. Study your wife and love her to death, and you shall be one of the few men who adore their lives on this earth. The choice is yours. ///