“Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me 50 thousand times, you are the weather man.”
Makes you smile and think twice, doesn’t it? Nobody fools you more than once unless you let them, and after you let them fool you multiple times, going around and blaming them for fooling you makes you look even more foolish.
You definitely teach others how to treat you. So, before you blame others for what they did to you, ask yourself this important question:
“Have I taught this person to treat me this way?”
If your answer is “Yes,” it is good to own it up and learn how to value yourself first so that you can teach others how to value and treat you.
Statements such as: “I told him that I don’t want sex before marriage but he is not listening to me and he is always pushing himself on me whenever we are alone” – tells me that this girl is not communicating with the man well, not only with her words but also with her actions.
And actions speak louder than words and the man is hearing her actions, not words.
So, I always ask, “After he pushed himself on you more than once despite what you told him, why are you still around him?”
Hmm, mind boggling, isn’t it? ///