There are great purposes why God created marriage, a covenantal relationship between one man and one woman. And one of the zillion purposes of marriage is to raise kids who are mentally and emotionally healthy.
Healthy marriages are like “Petri Dishes” to grow “healthy and godly children” on. When that “Petri Dish” that good ground is disturbed, the ones who suffer the most are kids.
A4P Guest: I have a question about your latest post titled “Sex in a Dream.”
So, are you saying that the natural phenomena called wet dream or also called “nocturnal emission” (or ejaculation) is a sin and whoever has this phenomenon needs someone to pray for them so that they won’t have it?
One of the young men who came to me for help this week had this problem: He often sees in his dream having sex with the same woman. This woman is not the woman he knows in real life, he only knows her in his dream. He finds himself being orgasmic whenever he sees this dream. Here is his whole story:
(Thank you my dear brother for letting me use your story and your question. May the LORD bless you!)
“There is no one like the God of Jeshurun,
who rides across the heavens to help you
and on the clouds in his majesty.
The eternal God is your refuge,
and underneath are the everlasting arms.
He will drive out your enemies before you,
saying, ‘Destroy them!’- – –
She is 26 years old. She stays home with her two little kids. She is tired most of the time since one of her children is active and hyper. Her husband works long hours; and he comes home late trying to make the ends meet. She used to attend church programs two or three times a week but now she rarely goes to church because her husband doesn’t want the kids to go to church and catch a cold. She used to listen to Gospel songs wherever she goes. She used to fast and pray and read Bible every evening.