Category Archives: Sexual Purity

This made my day and I have to share it with you all!

I heard it on the radio. It is a true story of a poor husband.

So, one Christmas season the husband, as usual, zoomed out of the whole idea of going to the mall to look for a gift for his wife. He didn’t think much about it until late on Christmas Eve.

So, on Christmas Eve, when he saw all the pile of gifts under the tree, he rushed out of the house as if he got up from his deep sleep and went to the nearby mall. As you can imagine, the shopping mall was full of all those frantic and nervous “last minute shoppers.” Even if it was hard to see anything, he found his way to the jewelry counter and found one cute gold pin for his wife. He got it wrapped up with a pretty gift paper, took it home and proudly kept it under the tree.

On the Christmas Day morning, he gave the gift to his wife after she gave him a perfect gift he wanted to have. She opened her gift and – – – within a second, he realized from her look that she didn’t like the gift.

So, he asked, “Honey, you didn’t like the gift?”

She calmly said, “Honey, you gave me this same pin last year on Christmas Day.”

He completely forgot it! Struggling to cover his shame, he managed to come up with a reply and said, “But I have never seen you wearing it.”

She again calmly replied, “Because I’ve never liked it.”


What should we do with our poor husbands?????///

“How can I get better at Sex?”

“I’m married and have one two years old son. I’ve been a Christian since I was twelve. I’m 28 years old now. I was a virgin when I got married three years ago. My husband on the other hand had sexual relationship with other women. Now we are having sexual problem because he always says to me things like, “All my ex-girlfriends used to make me happy sexually but you don’t know anything because you have no sexual experience.” I’m not sure what to do. I’m confused and frustrated. I sometimes blame God for paying me back this way for keeping myself pure until marriage. How and where can I go to learn about sex?”

Oh, my dearest, God is Just! He is a faithful God! God has nothing to do with your current problem but your husband. Your husband is failing you on letting you teach him how to love you. Continue reading “How can I get better at Sex?”

Oh, it is Sunday again! Praise the LORD!

And it is not just a Sunday, but a beautiful sunny and gorgeous Sunday! Praise God!

Sunday, one of the days we go to the house of God and worship God together! When we brothers and sisters sit together, we receive special blessing, visitation directly from God and guess what that visitation is going to bring us?

Listen what the Bible says, “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is
For brothers to dwell together in unity! – – – For there the Lord commanded the blessing—life forever.” Psalm 133 (NASB) Continue reading Oh, it is Sunday again! Praise the LORD!

My upcoming YouTube message answers the following question

“I am a 28 years old Christian single man. The one thing I desire in my life right now is to get married. I have dated two to three girls so far. The girl I am dating right now is just an amazing girl. The last thing I want is to lose her. So, if I were to ask you to give me three important principles I need to know so that I end up marrying this girl, what would those principles be?”

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The Bible verse I’ve been meditating on since morning:

“There is no divination against Jacob,
no evil omens against Israel.
It will now be said of Jacob
and of Israel, ‘See what God has done!’” Numbers 23:23

Did you hear that? Wow! Neither divination nor any omen works against Jacob! It doesn’t work because the One who dwells among Jacob is called God Almighty! The only thing Jacob and Israel’s enemy can do is this: Saying to himself and others every morning, “See what God has done!” ///

Freedom of Speech on Social Media

I heard the news on my way back from my kids’ basketball game yesterday night. I wanted to write this before I went to bed because I was totally “SPENT.” So, as usual, I prayed so that God would give me this day to write about it. Praise the LORD! God gave this day!

So, on the news yesterday, they said that freedom of speech had to be “reevaluated” once more “because some people are using social media to “target and assault” individuals.” The lady who was interviewed (from my memory, not word by word) said, “Facebook and other social media are targeting, for example, women.” Continue reading Freedom of Speech on Social Media

Part I – Post-Modernization Ideology

This is Part I of my teaching titled “Post-Modernization Era – God knows about it too!”

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A Day to Say “Thank You” to My Dear Pastor

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My pastor for the last 20 years has been Pastor Hanfere Aligaz, the senior pastor of the International Ethiopian Evangelical Church in Washington, DC.

Oh, how I thank him! I hope you guys don’t mind if I address him here, as if he was the only one who is reading this post.

Pastor Hanfere, thank you for being my pastor for the last 20 years. Thank you for praying for me when I was single and confused! Thank you, Pastor, for opening your office door for me and my “boy-friend” when we were scared and confused, like 18 years ago. Thank you for counseling and leading us to the right place. Thank you for blessing our union when we didn’t have anybody. Thank you for buying a big cake for us on the day you blessed our union as a husband and a wife. Thank you, Pastor, for anointing and praying for each one of our children as you dedicated them to the LORD. Thank you, Pastor, for embracing my ministry when I first told you for the first time. Thank you, Pastor, for asking me and my Berhand about Appeal for Purity every time you see us.

Above all, thank you, Pastor, for loving me, my Berhan and our beautiful kids. May the LORD bless the rest of your years! May the LORD bless your children, grandchildren and grand-grandchildren up to 1000 generation! Oh, how we love you! Stay blessed! ///