From Nuremberg, Germany
“I’m a 25 year-old, single girl, and a student. I have been part of A4P for a while now. Excuse my English it’s not that good but I’m sure you will understand what I’m trying to say. I have been living in Germany for about 5 years now and have been in 3 different relationships so far.
Let’s first see a theoretical story as an example for the many similar real and true stories I frequently encounter in my ministry:
A couple, while they were dating, they kept on putting themselves in a very tempting environment. Their relationship didn’t start that way. Both of them had clear boundaries when it comes to sexual purity and they communicated that clearly but they let one compromise sneak in to their relationship.
Falling in love is a precious experience set aside only to human beings. Animals don’t have any clue about falling in love since all they are expected to do is when they have the urge to have sex; they do it anywhere, with anyone, whenever they want to. That is one of the significant differences between animals and humans, humans who are created in the image of God.
It was a very gradual process for me to come in contact with pornography. I was a very sexually curious kid long before porn.
Since the age of 10 or so, I used to have sexual talks with older friends and other guys. But I discovered about masturbation by myself and I used to do it alone or with a friend around the age of 12-13.
The most depressing, frustrating and disappointing reason to marry is to have sex. Do you know why? Well, let me give one analogy to make my point clear:
Let’s assume that a married couple has sexual intimacy three times a week. (I’m not suggesting that having sex three times a week is the norm or anything. It can be a norm for some and for some, three times a week may feel like a fasting season).
Thank you so much for all of you who stopped by at my inbox to let me know how much A4P benefited you in many ways and levels! I thank God for it! And may all the glory and praise be to Jesus Christ!
Yes, it feels really good to hear from you guys because sometimes I feel like nobody is out there to hear me. Yes, as it is with every Facebook page owner, it is good to see lots of “Likes” on a post but for me personally, I want to hear from the hearts of people who are reading my messages. And today, you all let me hear from your heart. So, thank you so much guys!