Category Archives: Marriage

“I am not mean”

The most life threatening environment for a man to live in is a house where the presence of a mean-spirited wife is felt everywhere.

First, he fights to win; then he quickly understands that he has little or zero chance to win. So, he totally withdraws (tends to watch soccer or football a lot or becomes a politician and/or a philosopher). Then he checks himself out from his kids’ life and at last he desires only one thing, to die. Continue reading “I am not mean”


“The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Genesis 2:18

A suitable helper or “a helpmate” in the Hebrew word is Ezer Kenegdo and guess what that translates in to: A LIFESAVER.
No wonder divorced men die quicker than the men who stayed in their marriages. Remarriage doesn’t change the life expectancy of a divorced man. The only thing that is better for a man to do in this life is, first, to find a woman to marry, and second, decide to live with her until he dies.

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Adam Knew His Wife

They say, “Men love sex and that is where it starts and ends for them.”

I know, I once thought that too. Some researchers didn’t want to waste their time either when they agree with that and say it is “self-explanatory” as if that was the definition of being a man.

So, since his puberty, a man is beaten up with a message such as this one: “You are here on this planet for one thing only: To have sex. All you need in life is sex. If you don’t get that, you are going to be less of a man. So, do whatever you can to keep your manhood.” Continue reading Adam Knew His Wife

A Wife Prays

Thank You, LORD, for giving me another day to come to You in prayer. May Your Name be blessed forever!
I have received many good and perfect gifts from You, LORD. LORD Jesus, You died for me; so I might live for You. You became sin for me so I might be God’s righteousness. Thank You, LORD Jesus!
I also thank You for giving me a husband, with whom I am becoming one. I don’t deserve to have him as a husband but You gave him to me anyways. So, thank You.

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The Day He Marries You

A4P Guest: My fiance and I are going to get married at the end of this year. I am very excited but there is something that is bothering me.

A4P: Congratulations! Wow! It must be exciting! Okay, let’s hear what is bothering you.

A4P Guest: You know, when I shared this issue with some people, they thought that my issue is so minor that I shouldn’t even worry about it. I don’t know if you read one wonderful book called “The Five Love Languages,” by Gary Chapman.

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