When the Bible says to husbands to love their wives and to wives, to submit to their husbands, it’s not just giving them a command to obey but also the only way to follow so their houses stay standing. (Ephesians 5:22-30, Matthew 7:24-27)
A married man is one with his wife. (Genesis 2:24)
Continue reading Roommates
If the word of God doesn’t have any place in our homes, how can our homes stay standing?
Continue reading Our Best Friend
Yeap! They call it cuddle hormone. It is Oxytocin. It has multiple and complicated functions in our body but mainly it helps us to bond and make us “relatable” creatures. It mainly bonds mothers to their babies. It also helps to intensify bonding memories, but both good and bad memories.
It is primarily because of this hormone that we should run away from our ex-boy/girlfriend once we’re married. Otherwise those “love-again” stories may occur like lightening without any warnings because of the good memories oxytocin kept in our memory bank. Make note of that! Continue reading Cuddle Hormone
“What you are facing is intended to strengthen your marriage, not destroy it.” Jackie Bledsoe
Continue reading Just think about it!
Marriage is supposed to be fun, am I right?
I mean, we forsake everybody in our lives to unite and become one with one person we believe is going to make us happy. Right?
The truth is, our spouse may make us happy for a day or two but not on a daily basis. We all married people can attest to that.
Continue reading The Perfect Fantasy Spouse
GPS (the Global Positioning System) is a system that tells us where a certain address is located on this earth. We enter the address of our destination and the GPS will show us exactly how to get there. It gives us a step-by-step direction.
GPS has been around for sometimes now but haven’t you seen people who have GPS on their phone or car but don’t even know where they’re driving to?
Continue reading As Google Maps Does
A4P Guest: “I was not overweight before I got married. After I had my two kids, I gained more than 20 pounds and I am still struggling to lose but nothing seems to work. My major problem though is my embarrassment before my husband. I feel like he doesn’t like me anymore because of the extra pounds I put on especially around my belly. I feel so unattractive. I feel exposed whenever I think of sexual intimacy. My husband repeatedly told me that he doesn’t care. Does weight gain affect sexual intimacy? What do I need to do to feel good about myself and enjoy my intimate moments with my husband as I used to?” Continue reading I Feel So Unattractive
Gary Thomas, the most respected and loved author and speaker about marriage and romance, advises married people to keep the first romantic love alive.
Do you know how he says we can do that?
Continue reading Keep the Fire Burning
A4P Guest: Well, I am not sure where to begin. I am married and have a two year old girl. This is my second marriage. I am 35 years old. Yes, I am a born-again Christian. I got married with my second husband three years ago. And I am constantly thinking about my ex. I know this sounds crazy but I can’t stop thinking about him. I am learning about marriage a lot now and I can see clearly how my previous marriage could have been saved had I have known what I know today. Missy, my husband is a nice man but I am not in love with him. I am in love with my ex-husband. I don’t know what to do about that. My ex is married and there is no way for me to get back to him, I know that very well. And I don’t want to hurt my current husband and I don’t want my ex to divorce his wife either. But I have this constant wish that doesn’t leave my mind. I am crying when I type this but let me tell you my deepest wish: I want my ex-husband to call me and tell me that he still loves me. Missy, we used to love each other. I met him when I was 19, I was madly in love with him, so was he, and – – – I think I need to stop. I think I am depressed. I don’t know what to do or where to go. Can you help me?
Continue reading “I’m In Love With My Ex”
Divorce only causes pains and hurts and mars life with lifetime guilt and regret.
Continue reading Let No One!