When a wife says to her husband, “I feel so stressed and down,” she is not asking him to fix her, or fix the conflict she has at her job or fix her kids who might be driving her crazy.
No, no, no! She is not asking him that. All she is asking him is this: “Can you show me some love so that I can pick myself up to fix my problems and be respectful towards you?”
Continue reading That is all!
There are great purposes why God created marriage, a covenantal relationship between one man and one woman. And one of the zillion purposes of marriage is to raise kids who are mentally and emotionally healthy.
Healthy marriages are like “Petri Dishes” to grow “healthy and godly children” on. When that “Petri Dish” that good ground is disturbed, the ones who suffer the most are kids.
Continue reading Healthy marriages protect kids From Sexual addiction
Sometimes, I find similar questions dropped off in my inbox from different people at the same time.
And this week, I have received one particular question from different married women; and that question is regarding “loss of sexual pleasure after childbirth”, (which is clinically called anorgasmia).
Continue reading Kegel Exercise
From all the things God commanded His people, the Israelites, this one command got my attention last week:
“Do not plow with an ox and a donkey yoked together.” (Deuteronomy 22:10)
Okay, I clearly understand those commands such as, “Don’t kill” and “Don’t do adultery”; but “don’t yoke an ox and a donkey” command kind of got me a bit confused. Continue reading An Ox and a Donkey
I’m telling you, you guys made my day! What a morning! I love it!
You know what, I saw many people have dropped off their messages around 11:58 and 11:59pm. I wish I could afford to send you all the gift!
Continue reading The Winner of Yesterday’s Game!
One Saturday afternoon, I bought a beautiful dress and couldn’t wait to show it to my husband. So after we put the kids to bed, I said “Okay, now let me show you my beautiful dress I bought today.”
So I wore the dress and said “Okay, here we go.”
Continue reading Keep Eve in the Grave
Oops, I think I did! Sorry I’m very excited about it. You have no idea what is going on behind the scene!
Only God is worthy to receive all the glory and praise for making this ministry to stay strong throughout this year! If it was for the devil and enemy of my soul, not only this ministry but I would have been long forgotten! Continue reading Did I already say “Happy Anniversary to Appeal for Purity?”
Let’s first see a theoretical story as an example for the many similar real and true stories I frequently encounter in my ministry:
A couple, while they were dating, they kept on putting themselves in a very tempting environment. Their relationship didn’t start that way. Both of them had clear boundaries when it comes to sexual purity and they communicated that clearly but they let one compromise sneak in to their relationship.
Continue reading Sex before Marriage
Last week, I shared with you one aspect of wives’ sexual nature. Well, today I want to share with you one aspect of husbands’ sexual nature to keep the balance. I hope you husbands agree with that. If you don’t, you are just lying, lol. ///
The most depressing, frustrating and disappointing reason to marry is to have sex. Do you know why? Well, let me give one analogy to make my point clear:
Let’s assume that a married couple has sexual intimacy three times a week. (I’m not suggesting that having sex three times a week is the norm or anything. It can be a norm for some and for some, three times a week may feel like a fasting season).
Continue reading The Most Depressing Reason to Get Married