Category Archives: Family

“Is this the person God wanted me to marry?”

This is one of the questions married people should not ask. “Is this the right person?” is a legitimate question for unmarried couples to ask before they tie the knot.

But, after marriage, that question is irrelevant. Asking God such a question after marriage is like asking God if He was sure of creating us. Did you hear me? Yes, after marriage, after a couple exchanges their vows and becomes one in sexual intimacy, the deal is closed. They are meant to be together until death do them part. The file is closed. We can’t bring the jury back to court again to reach to another verdict for the case that is closed.

I know this is not the world view when it comes to marriage but we are not of this world, are we? (John 15:19) Continue reading “Is this the person God wanted me to marry?”

March 27, 2014, 17 Years of Our Wedding Anniversary!

Wow, March 27, 1997 was the day the man I love (Berhan) and I exchanged our vows, before a judge, to be one till death do us part.

I was thinking of our anniversary throughout the week but for some reason I forgot about it this morning. I dropped off our kids to school and on my way back home, my favorite song came in the radio and I remembered that beautiful Thursday morning, March 27, 1997. I got home and I said to the man I always love, “Hey, happy anniversary” and I started crying. Berhan gave me my favorite squishy hug saying “happy anniversary, my Love”. I continued crying. I know I was crying out of joy but I had a reason too. Continue reading March 27, 2014, 17 Years of Our Wedding Anniversary!

A Follow up update on the Match Making Service

A Follow up update on the Match Making Service

I want to make something clear to those of you who are asking me about how the A4P match making service works.

First, this service is not only to those who are virgins. Phew! That is out of the way! The requirement doesn’t include that.

And some of you are asking me question like, “What if I don’t like the man I meet through A4P?” This question itself tells me that you didn’t understand what I’m set out to do. Continue reading A Follow up update on the Match Making Service

God’s Not Dead

How can I go to bed without sharing this with you guys!!!! I can’t!!!

You see, I remember the first day I went to the Pentecostal church. My best friend invited me and I had a dinner appointment with my boyfriend (who is my husband now). And my friend begged me to go with her. I said to her, “Okay, I

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in with a mini-skirt?” She laughed hysterically and said, “Nobody will say that to you. Just come with me.”

So, I went with her. The church was packed with people and everybody was singing. The usher couldn’t find us two seats. So we had to sit at separate seats (I guess that was God’s plan because with my constant joke, I might not listen, lol). I took my seat but since everybody was standing and singing, I stood up.

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a baby. The more I tried to control myself, the more my tears were gashing out of my eyes.

By this time, people next to me started to pitch in their tissue papers.

The fact that my friend was sitting far away from me kind of gave me confidence to cry as much as I wanted to but nothing seemed to be enough.

Wow, and guess what, similar thing after how many years, my gosh, happened to me few hours ago

Do you know what I happened to me? Well, I watched “God’s not Dead” movie which came out yesterday in all movie theaters.

My hubby is in the middle of programming something and he is literally sleeping and eating with his laptop. The kids and I wanted to give him free time. So we went out to watch a movie. First, we wanted to watch “Noah”; then we said; “The Son of God” but for some reason the trailer didn’t attract me; especially the Son of God. Well, the actor who is playing Jesus, kissed Lazarus to raise him from the dead (I don’t know if I made a mistake or something). So, I’m like, no, I don’t want them to take away that precious story from my heart, a story where Jesus called Lazarus out of the tomb. So, I said, “Let’s forget everything and let’s go and watch God’s not Dead” and we agreed and went in.

Little did we know that the Holy Spirit was waiting for us in the Movie Theater!!! Guys, I’m telling you, that was my experience. Ten minutes into the movie, I wanted to cry but didn’t want to cry. I held my tears back for a long time so that my little one wouldn’t worry about his poor mama. But I couldn’t hold it any longer. The love of Christ, I felt like went deep into my bones. I cried. I started worshiping God. Some people started clapping. I clapped with them but I thought that was not enough. I cried.

I made a vow with Christ. Yes, I did and I will keep it till I die, may the LORD help me!!! I cried and prayed!!! I was praying to my kids so that they would be “UNDONE” by the love Christ. I was crying and laughing at the same time. Oh, I said to God, “I love You, LORD” but that was not enough. When the movie ended, I didn’t know that three of my kids were also drenched with the Spirit. My daughter and I started wiping our eyes. My boys were checking each other’s eyes to see who was the man!!!

We got in the car and felt like we were heading to heaven.
Oh, how I wish I could tell you exactly how I felt!!!! But I can’t!!!

You know what I am looking forward to? Not only heaven but to go to heaven and use the heavenly words to express the love of God in full measure!!! I crave that! To say something about Christ and feel satisfied.

No word can express Him or His love!!!!

Why am I telling you this? To say this: “MAKE SURE YOU WATCH THIS MOVIE!!!!” God’s Not Dead!!!

Please guys, let’s watch every movie made for the cause of Christ. Let’s support these courageous movie makers who risk it all!!!

Wow, the message was simple but goes deep!!!! Powerful!!! It saves more lives than we ever think.

Okay, I better go now.

Have a good night,

In Him, Missy.

 

 

 

Practical Way of Seeing Our Struggles and Problems

Do you want to change your life? Are you tired of struggling with porn addiction, masturbation, fornication or adultery?

Change your thinking pattern.

Ask yourself what these things mean to you. Understand why God says “No” to these things. Single out and dissect each one of them through the Word of God.

See them through the eyes of God’s Words; Words such as:

“Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.” Psalms 91:1

“The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing.” Psalm 23:1

“The lions may grow weak and hungry, but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing.” Psalm 34:10

Then put your reality next to them. If you lack good things, peace, joy and rest, you will know for sure that the Almighty God is not in the detail of your life. Yes, you’ve received Jesus Christ as your personal Savior but did you receive Him as the Shepherd and Captain of your ship; Captain of your daily life?

As they say, “the devil is in the detail”. You may trust Jesus for your eternal life but maybe you didn’t trust Him for the daily or detail of your life. And guess what, Jesus wants to be the LORD of your daily as well as eternal life!

You see, sometimes we get focused on our problems and struggles so much that we lose sight of the main thing. We focus on the forest and try to solve the problem of the forest while we neglect the health of each tree.

What is taking your money? How do you spend each hour of your day? What is your tongue excited to talk about? Who are the

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You see, the details of our life tell the real story. The details sum up our life and give us the answer why we are the way we are. Remember, the health of each tree determines the look and health of the forest. Don’t forget that! ///

Thinking Pattern

If our thinking patters don’t change, our destructive lifestyles don’t change either.

As our thinking patterns don’t get formed in a day, they don’t get changed in a day. It is a process to change them up to the point of changing our lifestyles.

One baby step a day is the rule of the thumb when it comes to changing our thinking patters. And there is nothing as powerful as the Word of God to change

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not only our thinking patters but also our perspective in life. What used to have value before our eyes, after the Word of God shapes our thinking patter, we start seeing the truth behind most life issues. We start to hold on to that which has a lasting effect, impact and an eternal value. Our focus will not be on the “now” but on the “then”. We learn to let go of the seasonal and temporal pleasure for the permanent joy and rest.

Listen what the Bible says: “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romans 12:2

But, if reading the Word of God is the last thing in our “to do” list, we get stuck in our destructive thinking patter which leads us to nowhere but to death. ///

 

 

 

Match Making Ministry

“Match Making Ministry”, the phrase of the week!!!

Okay, guys, let’s rock and roll with the idea of match making ministry.

If you are single, live in America or Canada, want to get married and want to try the matching service of A4P, inbox me your basic demographic information:

Name, gender, age (very important), religion, place of residency (full mailing address), phone number, education, language, hobby, any awards or accomplishments, income (very important), name of your church, in what ministry you are serving God in your church (unless you are in the ministry for the last six months, it is not important to mention it, but your membership should be more than six month) and the name of the pastor you are under (very important).

And if you have Facebook account, your Facebook account should be on your real or original or official name. I won’t consider any applicant with the FB name such as “I am the child of God”. Not accepted! Your official name is very, very important. Your Facebook account should have at least a six month history with your pictures. If your friends wrote a comment and used a different nick name, please include that nick name in parenthesis next to your official name, (for example: Meskerem T. Kifetew (Missy)).

If you are reading this via email and don’t have Facebook account, make sure include all the information I mentioned above and make sure

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you write your official name with your nick name and your mailing address. If you have account of any other social networking sites than Facebook such as linkedIn, Instagram, oovoo or twitter, or any, let me know and the name of your account should be on your official name. Your account must have at least a minimum of six month history. Otherwise it is not important to mention it).

If you are married and want to be involved in this ministry in areas such screening and interviewing, inbox me.

For the next two and half hours, I will be on Facebook. If you have question or something, inbox me. I will respond back to each one of you but not as quickly as you may want to. My inbox is getting a little crowded now. So, bear with me. But know this: I will respond back to you as soon as I can.

Take care,

In Him, Missy.

Don’t Do Life Alone!

Satan doesn’t care if we pray and read the Bible as long as we keep our lives to ourselves!!!

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Yes, we love Christ and come to church every Sunday but when the question of opening our hearts to others come up, we are on our way.

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Oh, Beloved, shake the gate of hell by opening up your life for others. Annoy Satan by disclosing your secrets to others. Destroy his hiding place by letting go of your secret lives by inviting others to come and pray with you!!!

As Satan starts leaving you alone, your lifestyle will start calling others to the life of Christ-likeness. Yes, your life starts impacting others in one way or the other.

Precious, if your life is the one given over to Christ, you can’t keep it to yourself. It has to be given over for others. Christ wants to give your life to others so that others will see the light through you. But Christ can’t do that if you have life that is hidden away from others. He can’t do that if you keep your secret life to yourself. He can’t do that if you harbor sin in your life and you continue pretending as if you were alive. Until you settle this with yourself and start opening up, you will remain to be Satan favorite friend. ///

Outstanding Response

Wow, the response for the matching ministry is “insanely wonderful”, lol. I’m very excited!!! Messages are still pouring out in my inbox. Keep it coming!!! Wow, guys, I’m so thankful to be with you all who are positive and full of energy and enthusiasm.

I also want to say “Thank you”, for those of you, for taking your time

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to drop a note and encourage me to continue with the idea. That is great!

I also want to leave a special “Thank You” note to the brothers and sisters in Boston who prayed for me and A4P yesterday on their Wednesday morning prayer meeting. Amazing! I don’t even know them!!! But they know me through the Spirit we all share. Thank you so much my beloved brothers and

sisters!!! May God bless you!!!

And now I need more people who will say something like: “I can help you with generating a questionnaire” (which is a key role, to filter out fakes, liars, and jokers); or “I can help you with advertising the idea” or; “I can help you with making flyers so that more people will hear about it” or something.

Don’t ever think that I can do this by myself. I am just one body part. If, let’s say, I’m the pinky finger, what can a pinky finger accomplish without the help of the hand, arm and the whole body? Nothing!!!

I have received enough “what if you meet a lion on your way” kind of messages. Guys, we need to have a certain amount of fear when we do the work of God but not to the extent for the fear to disable us. Let’s be positive since God is working with us. Let’s be ready to jump in to bring the idea into a reality so that perhaps we may help somebody else out there.

Some people said: “What if a couple gets married and decide to get divorced? Do you know that they are going to blame you and A4P?”

Let’s be clear on something here: There are always people who are going to blame us for their fault. There are always people out there who will say things which are not true about us. Whether we go out from our comfort zone to do the work of God to help others or we lock ourselves up in our room, to do nothing, there are people who will say something negative about us. Am I right? We can do nothing about that. We can’t change that reality. We can’t go door to door to try to change people. So, if that is the case, why don’t we just concentrate on those things which we can bring a difference to?

Remember, a matching service will only introduce a couple to each other. It doesn’t throw them a wedding party so that they will get married. It doesn’t force them to get married either. These two people, one man and one woman, will be introduced to each other and the rest is their own responsibility. These are two adults who should be responsible to make their relationship work, not the matching service.

Another thing is this: Whenever I say “RARE JEWEL” or “RARE SAPPHIRE”, I’m not only referring to virgins, guys. Remember, precious stones usually go through fire for them to start shinning!!! So, being a virgin is not a criterion to be a candidate for matching ministry!!! And as I always say, “physical virginity is not the only sign of sexual purity”. (Please read my November, December, January and February articles).

Okay, I’ve to go now. Looking forward to hearing from those of you who already pulled your sleeves up to get to work.

The best Bible verse to close this note with: “The God of heaven will give us success. We His servants will start rebuilding” the House of God, but as for the devil, he won’t have any share. (Nehemiah 2:20).

One of the most interesting questions I was asked this week

One of the most interesting questions I was asked this week was this:

“What is your take on the thought of “Woman’s role after marriage (which some tend to call it: Biblical Womanhood)? Certain groups of people from this group called "womanhood" are actually writing books and are saying that a woman after she is married, she has to work at home, take care of the household and raise her kids. They say that it is wrong to use birth control, it is wrong to send kids to school rather than home schooling them. They said that the husband is not only the head but the priest of the house. What do you think about these things?”

BTW, they also say that woman should never teach or preach.

Well, I love those people who stand behind the thought of “womanhood”. These people are the ones who are calling America and the Church back to their original place. These are the people who are receiving all the threat and hatred emails titled “You Bigots” whenever the definition of marriage is on the table. They are almost the only ones who appear on TV and mainstream media (MSM) to speak about faith, marriage and family according to the Word of God, fearlessly. They play the most important role on preserving the sanctity of human life since they are against any form of abortion.

Not only I love them but I support some of their ministries too (I wish I could support all their ministries). They ministered to me, personally, in a unique and godly way. I’m very thankful for them all!!!

Yes, I do love and support them BUT I don’t agree on some of their stands. Just because I disagree with some of their stands, I won’t hold my love and support from them.

As a rule of thumb, I believe, our love and support should win over our minor disagreements. I believe we should not let one or two disagreements divide us over. When we are divided, we lose power because the Spirit of God only works through love!!!

So, I agree with most of their stands but not all of them. That doesn’t mean that I will send them a hate email or rally against them, holding a sign that says “Go back to the 12th Century”.

Are you kidding? It is because of them that I’m freely able to launch a ministry such as "Appeal for Purity" which is touching on the very sensitive life issues of human life such as SEX, MARRIAGE BETWEEN ONE MAN AND ONE WOMAN and sexual purity!!! May the LORD increase their numbers throughout the world!!!

So, where do I disagree with them?

Okay, let’s see. They say, "It is wrong to use birth control."

Well, I give a four month long class, with a good brother and pastor of our church family ministry. It is a premarital class given to couples who are going to marriage this year (we give these classes every year). So, you can just imagine which topics I’m responsible to teach.

So, when I get to the birth control issue, I always say this: As a couple, please sit down and discuss your personal conviction around birth control. If you think that God convicted you both to

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Yes, it is a big issue. They have to be on the same page.

I personally don’t want to preach to anyone what to do in this regard. However, I will tell you what I know and understand to be against the Word of God and it is up to you to accept or reject it.

Fertilization begins within 24 hours of fertilization (the egg of the woman is being fertilized by the sperm of the husband). That fertilized egg is life, my Dear! That is not a piece of meat. Why? Because the Bible says this:

“For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
Your eyes saw my unformed body;
all the days ordained for me were written in your book” Psalm 139: 13, 16

“Unformed body”, means, there is no leg, brain, heart or anything. It is unformed body and God is in the process of knitting it.

Another Bible verse that makes my eyes teary is this: “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you” (Jeremiah 1:5a)

My Dearest, I’m not only talking about a fertilized egg here but also about a life that is known only by God. This Bible verse tells us one big TRUTH! Are you ready??? Well, this Bible verse tells us that NO BABY IS AN ACCIDENT!!! They come because God already thought them even before they were knitted and formed in their mothers’ womb.

That being said, any procedure or medicine or method that prevents a fertilized egg from growing is against the Word of God; which makes the act sinful.

Some researchers said, “Today, the most risky and unsafe place for a kid to be found is not a public high school, or a college or a bad neighborhood in Africa but TO BE FOUND IN HIS MOTHER’S WOMB!” (They said this because of the increase in number of babies who get aborted every year. One abortion clinics, for example, in Chicago, their sewage system was clogged and when the maintenance people came, they found little babies’ body parts – you can find the news on Google).

Continuing on with the topic, all methods, medicines and procedures, which kill the “unformed body” of a baby are called abortion methods.

Let’s see some of them if they are considered as abortion methods. First, of course, we should know that the literal procedure of abortion is included in the category of a procedure which kills a baby – (any form of abortion which is done in all pregnancy stages are considered abortion or the killing of the baby. The barbaric method of abortion is the one they do when the baby comes out of his mother’s womb. It is called partial birth abortion. When they baby comes out of his mom’s body, it is his/her head that comes first; then the mom will be told not to push until they suck her baby’s brain out. Then the still or dead body of the baby will be cut into pieces so that it will come out easily. Google and learn from the women who let this procedure be done on them and who found it hard to forgive themselves. Very sad!)

Who tells us all these things? Who brings out all these things to light??? Mostly, people from “womanhood” group!!!

I know it is very hard to read this and hard for me to write it down but it is very necessary sometimes to spell everything. Why? I meet people who say to me, “I didn’t know that they were doing it this way. Now I regret that I let them do that barbaric procedure on me and my baby. How can I forgive myself?”

So, you and I can help create awareness everywhere we go so that no woman will be victim of ignorance.

By the way, abortion is a multimillion dollar business. Some think and claim that it is a non-profit business “to help women”. Outrageous!!! It is not helping women; it is destroying their spirit!!!

Some people say to me: “These people who do abortion are doing it to help woman not to be poor. They are very kind and they die for the cause to help all women because they are convinced by the safe method of abortion and how women are benefited from it.” Hilarious!!! (Those of you who are in Africa, take note of this because they are in every city of African, publicizing their abortion meds as birth control – I will come to this in the next paragraphs. Please read on).

My Dearest, abortion clinics are making million dollars by convincing people, like you and me, so that we decide to kill our own kids. Are you kidding? They should die for the cause because the cause is their only money generating avenue.

Well, if I’m asked to take one side from the two sides, the one side which is against birth control, and the other side which is for birth control, I will choose the one which is against because it doesn’t give flesh an opportunity to play with fire.

Few years ago, a lady called me. And she said she wanted to start one of the birth control methods. And she said, “What do you think of IUD?”

I said this to her in simple sentence: “I think and believe IUD is not a birth control method but a method which kills a fertilized egg. Yes, I know sometimes it may prevent the sperm from getting to the egg but there is evidence that shows that IUD preventing the implantation of a fertilized egg on a uterus or in another word “it prevents or stops the development of an the unformed body” of the baby.”

She said quickly, “I’m a Christian and I grow up in a Christian family. We all are Christians. Most my families are ministers. All the women in my family are using IUD as a birth control.”

I said, “Okay?”

She said, “I mean, what is wrong with it? All my family members said that it is safe.”

“First, something is safe doesn’t mean that it is right. Second, two wrongs don’t add up to make the action right. Because all your families use it doesn’t mean that it is a right method.”

She said, “But I don’t think it is wrong to use IUD.”

I said, “You asked me a question, I answered it to the best of my knowledge and conviction. Making a decision or a choice is yours.”

I sometimes get a little confused why people ask if they already made up their mind on the issue. I really don’t know!

Okay, the next idea of “womanhood” is this: “Home schooling kids is the best strategy to raise kids for the Kingdom of God. If we send them to school, we are sinning against God.”

I agree, but I don’t agree where they said that it is sin to send our kids to school. As we stay home with our kids, and train them up in ways they should go, we sure want them to stay outside bringing others to Christ. Do you know 70% of born again Christians come to Christ before the age of 18?

Yes, we need our kids to be out on a field, if you know what I mean.

If I decide to teach them home, the whole day, that is fine too as long as I give them a certain exposure to the outside world. But I believe that I won’t sin against God if I send them to school.

Another point, “It is sin for a woman to work outside of home”.

Well, I agree that it is the best way for we, mothers, to choose to stay home with our kids. But I don’t agree categorizing all women who are in the work force as sinners. For some, their work might be their call. I mean, it would have been wonderful if all mothers chose to stay home and raised their kids. That would be a gift for our society.

But I don’t know if it is wise to condemn those people who have to work outside their house for many reasons.

BTW, I am a full-time mom and I am doing my role of mothering with joy and happiness. But I refrain from considering those of my friends who work outside their house as sinners.

If it was sin for a woman to work outside of her house, Proverbs 31st woman would have been a candidate for hell. Precious, she was a very known and respected merchant. People may argue saying that she was doing her work at home. Well, she can’t do her business sitting in her kitchen. She didn’t have a laptop. As we read on Proverbs 31st, she had servants to take care of the house chores while she did what? Doing business; buying and selling.

Another womanhood’s people idea: “Husbands are not only leaders of their household but they are also priests of their household”, I agree 100% but they forgot that husbands are servants too as Jesus was to His Disciples (He washed their feet).

Another one, “Women should not speak in the church or teach.”

Well, I will be in trouble if I said I agree with this thought because I am one of the women who stand behind the pulpit.

Well: “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” (Galatians 3:28) Did you hear that?

The one thing Jesus demolished from those religious society (Jews), the society He came from, was man’s supremacy. Beloved without Jesus, we women would have been continued to be looked at as a second citizen and/or (as I read it on the book of one particular religion), we would have been considered as “a piece of Lucifer” or as "a piece of hades (hell)” or even trash.

But Jesus set us all free, may all the glory and grace be to Him!!! So, NO ONE, I WILL SAY IT AGAIN, NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT FREEDOM AWAY FROM ME!!! (Read the story of Jesus in all four Books of the Gospel and notice what kinds of women Jesus chose to talk to, eat with, touch, heal and tell the Gospel to!!!! Just beautiful!!!)

I still believe, though, men should be at the leader position with some reservation (I have no problem with women being CEOs of a company but I choose – again, not to be divided over, but I choose a church to be led by a man.)

I will discuss some other time why Paul said those things some people (or I may say, respectfully, some men) get obsessed with (1 Corinthians 14).

Well, by now, you know where my stand is when it comes to the idea of womanhood. This is not all. I will deal with the rest of things another time. For now, I think this is enough. The bottom line is this: I LOVE THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE FOR WOMANHOOD! And I agree with them in most of their points.