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Do Men Fear Women?

“Really? Do men have a fear of women?”

Well, it depends on who you ask this question to.

If you ask married men, most of them laughingly tell you all about it. If you ask single men, most of them choose to lie straight to your face and avoid the topic because they are in the middle of fighting against that same fear you are asking them about. They think that fear is something that is only appropriate for kids and women to feel, not “macho men”.   Continue reading Do Men Fear Women?

“There Are No Men Like That”

When a testosterone rush bombards a young man’s brain, he can’t think logically. He has no way of controlling his urges, and his brain will be taken over by the notoriously hard-to-resist hormones.

However these same hormones can be channeled, harnessed, and bridled by the renewed mind of a young man. (NOTICE the difference between mind and brain here.) Continue reading “There Are No Men Like That”

You Rather Be Single For Life

It is wonderful to see couples tying the knot to be one, never to be two.

As a married person and a teacher in the area of sexual purity, I can’t tell you how I rejoice whenever I see a wedding.

Yes, the Bible says that marriage protects us from being soaked in sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 7). What a joy then to see someone escaping such a “ruthless tyrant” as sexual immorality! Continue reading You Rather Be Single For Life

A Direct Reflection Of Our Spiritual Lives

Our marriages are a direct reflection of our spiritual lives.

When the Word commands how a wife needs to be in her marriage, it reads like this: “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husband” and it doesn’t stop there. It says, “Submit to your husbands as you do to the LORD”. And the Word commands husbands this way: “Husbands, love your wives” and, again, it doesn’t stop there. It persists on saying, “just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her”. (Ephesians 5:21-33) Continue reading A Direct Reflection Of Our Spiritual Lives