Do you wanna know your man?
Listen to what he is telling you.
Yes, the same can be said of a woman, however, more often than not, it is the problem girls not to carefully listen to their man than men to their woman. (Remember, this is true only before marriage.)
The man says, “I hope you don’t expect me to sit with you in church and sing after we get married! Hahaha!”
She chuckles with him.
Then she marries him and complains, “I thought he was a spiritual man. I don’t think he even knows Christ. When I saw him running around in church, I thought he would teach me the word of God and help me to know God better.”
What do you say to that? “Didn’t he tell you that he was not that spiritual?”
So, point blank! If you’re a girl, listen to what your man is telling you. Don’t listen to your wishes, dreams and fantasies. The man is in front of you. You don’t need to dream anything about him. If you have a question or two, ask him but listen when he answers your questions. Listen to what he is saying and believe what he is telling you because his words tell you what is in his mind, “For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” (Matthew 12:34b)
If he says, he loves Jesus but not going to church, believe him. Period! Because “the tongue exists to reveal our hearts.” Calvin ///