It Is Complicated!

Sex is beautiful, pleasurable, messy, yucky, sacred, holy, breathtaking, mysterious, confusing, refreshing, frustrating, fun, fulfilling, rejuvenating, exciting, thrilling and exhilarating! (Song of Solomon)
 
Do you see how complicated sex is?
 
It is not the way Hollywood movies, Fifty Shades of Gray or Darker or porn industries are portraying it as on screen. It is not.

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One Extra Empty Chair

We started having a family Bible study on Thursday nights when our youngest son was two or three years old. Then when our kids got a little older, we changed the day from Thursday to Saturday. So, if we all are in town, we always do our family Bible study on Saturday morning with a tasty breakfast which is my second favorite part of our Bible study. Why? Well, I no more cook on Saturdays. The rest of the Banko’s do. Is that a blessing or what! Continue reading One Extra Empty Chair

Why Don’t Some Church Leaders

You have no idea how many wives so far reached out to me from different places, from Ethiopia, Europe, America and Canada and other places and said something like:
 
“Missy, my husband is a minister and I think he has some kind of inappropriate relationship with this woman I know and I brought this to the church leaders’ attention but none of them seem to listen to me. What do I need to do?”

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