A4P Guest: “I’m a 21 year old girl, new for this dating business. I met this amazing guy, 26 years old, in my church. We were friends for almost six months. I believe I’m deeply in love with him but he doesn’t know that. I covered that part of the story real well. And when he asked me out, I was about to pass out. I’m not kidding. He is my dream man. Now, we are going to meet for the first time, next Saturday for lunch. This lunch will mark our first official date but I’m very nervous. I don’t want to mess things up; I just don’t want to lose him. What do you advise me to do?”