“We have freedom to express our love”

A4P Guest: I’m 26 years old and my boyfriend is 29. We both go to the same church and we are active in our church. My boyfriend teaches in the young adult’s ministry and I am one of the worship leaders in the adult’s congregation. My boyfriend and I don’t really believe that God is against our pleasure. If God is the One who has given us our desires, we believe that there is no way for Him to be against it. So we both have mutual understanding in this area and we have freedom to express our love to one another whenever we want to. We watch some videos to help us do that too. We are now getting married in March of 2017 and I was wondering if you can give us some premarital counseling so we know about marriage before we decide to find ourselves in it.

A4P: I love to! But, you guys need to sit and read on this page so that you know what you’re getting yourself into.

A4P Guest: What we want is to learn about marriage, what a wife has to do and a husband has to do. You know what I mean.

A4P: No, I don’t know what you mean.

A4P Guest: We want to know how to have a wonderful intimacy in marriage because some of our married friends told us that after marriage, our bedroom life might not be as good as it is now. So we want to make sure that – that won’t happen to us.

A4P: Oh, I got you now. You know, I don’t give such kind of counseling. Sorry for the confusion. Maybe you didn’t take time to read on this page and know what this page (or, this ministry) is all about. And, by the way, I totally disagree with your friends’ advice. If you wanna know why, read on this page.

By the way, what is the name of your church and who is Jesus Christ for you?

A4P Guest: Sorry, I have to go now. Thank you for answering my question.

A4P: Anytime. ///