A4P Guest: I’m 25 years old and I’ve been chatting with this man for almost one year now. I think I can say that we are dating even though we are dating online. He lives in America and I live in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. He is 29 years old. We pretty much talk almost everyday on Facebook or Viber and sometimes on Skype if I find good Internet connection. Now we are kind of agreeing to get married. We both are born again Christians and we want to do dating and marriage according to God’s will. I’m dropping you this message today because of one issue. Few months ago, we started to talk about sex, how we both had never been sexual with another person and all. Then one thing led to the other, now we are talking about sex almost every day. And last week he asked me to send him – – – pictures of me. Do you think it is wrong to talk about sex and send – – – pictures to the man I am planning to marry?”
A4P: Hmm – – – You met this guy online, dated him online; decided to marry him online and now you decided to sexually “groomed” by him online.
Do you know what you are asking me here? Do you have anybody, even one person, who can speak the truth into your life?
What does “We both are born-again Christians and we want to do dating and marriage according to God’s will” mean?
What are we becoming into? Mockers of the Cross, enemies of the Cross and children of this dark world? ///