“The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Genesis 2:18
A suitable helper or “a helpmate” in the Hebrew word is Ezer Kenegdo and guess what that translates in to: A LIFESAVER.
No wonder divorced men die quicker than the men who stayed in their marriages. Remarriage doesn’t change the life expectancy of a divorced man. The only thing that is best for a man to do is, first to marry and second to find a way to live with his complicatedly created wife.
After all, living with a woman is easy.
“Are you crazy?” you may say.
No, I’m not crazy. It is very easy to live with a woman. All you have to do is this: Love her and she will die for you. And who complains about living with a “dead person”? No one! If she is dead, she won’t bug you. Think about it.
And nothing can kill and bury a woman than love. Do you think God was joking when He said, “Husbands, love you wives as Jesus loved the church and died for her”? No, He was not joking. Actually He was giving you the best life-lesson tip you could ever find.
You see, if you don’t love your wife and show her love in the way she wants to be loved, you will lose both ways. How? Well, if you decide to live with her without showing her love, your life will be hell on earth. If you divorce her, you will “check-out” from this life sooner than you want to. Yeah, that is actually the findings of many researchers. If you remain single, you will die soon. If you marry and divorce, your life expectancy goes down the hill. The only best thing for you to do is to marry her and to decide to love her until you die.
By the way, that is what the Word of God says, in a nutshell, when it says “husbands, love your wives as Jesus loved the church and died for her.” So, take God’s way, which is always the best way anyways. Study your wife and love her to death, and you shall be one of the few men who adore their lives on this planet earth. The choice is yours. ///